FAGGY CLAUSE posted:

If I was in the male infantry unit, I would rape the women and then kill most of them (the ugly ones). I'd keep some of them alive so I could make them dyke each other out for amusement.

mind the walrus posted:

Not in the slightest yet I fall rear end-backwards into dates and relationships. It's really not that hard if you do literally anything with your life and engage other people.

Literally A Person posted:

This kept coming up in the last thread.

No, they are all really deeply closeted homo-sexuals. This is just a "functional" way for them to deal with their extremely repressed sexuality.

e: this is actually a seriouspost

Hobologist posted:

"They bitch about the term "female", not doing anything to challenge the validity of that statement."

So, he wants them to pull off the wig and drop their pants and say, "ha ha, I was a man all along."?

Pick posted:

One of my favorite movies

Ups_rail posted:

Hey pick glade your okay but


HAHAHA....HAHAHA

I wont continue the story of the lady or giving any more information on her, for fear of doxx'ing her, but she didnt have a happily ever after with the pizza dude, or the dude after that, or the dude after that or the two marriages after that.


So I am engaged right, I've also been in some pretty lovely lovely relationships and I will man up and admit that i ve been both the lovely person in some and the receiver in others.

My gf resents that she is paying for the mistakes of my ex's (her words) and I got a friends mom saying

"its all about compromise"

and other women saying

"you just need to communicate"

I just laugh at them and say "gently caress no"

For dinner she wants chinese? you want mexican? you compromise and get Italian? WTF

Compromise is not a panacea, I've seen first hand a friend wanted a hard mattress and his wife wanted a soft mattress so they compromised and spent a few years both sleeping lovely and finally got their own beds

She wants to go to paris for vacation you want to go to germany so you go to spain?

You wanna have kids she doesnt wanna have kids? I've loving seen that one play out, there is no loving compromise in that issue, and it got loving ugly. gently caress I lost that relationship cause I flat out told them

"this isnt something you can compromise on, poo poo it happened in my extended family and it was a god drat deal breaker"

Communication? That can make poo poo a million times worse

In my youth I believed in being emotionally available to my gf, in telling everything in being open.

I learned you dont tell them poo poo about your ex's period and that its best to



Because the truth is she doesnt need to know, she might want to know or think she wants to know but that knowledge will not make her happy.

I finally got that lesson from two experiences when I've had partners out of the loving blue bring up my ex's, Like literally out of the blue they are angry that I was with that black girl in college, I was stunned going "I never bring up your two marriages why are you bringing that up?" Then years later a woman I've had a long and unhealthy relationship with started bring up my ex's name in angry texts. That time I had the sense to say

"Those are my ex's name and I was with them, that is my past, nothing will ever change it, and I will never apologize for it, bringing it up doesnt hurt me or really matter."

The other reason I hate the "just communicate" advice is that they never loving mention something even more important

YOU CAN NEVER TAKE IT BACK

Be loving careful about what you say. Me and the girl had a thing happen. The result was her crying and me in whirlwind of anger/depression/rejection.

I kept my mouth shut because I knew expressing how I felt in the moment would not be constructive and it would be best to wait and see how I felt later, and honestly that issue has been worked on and improved.

Okay to swing back around to incels my idea is that they start at some point in their youth with a hosed up socialization. I bet the internet has exacerbated this, as they get older they get more bitter at their failure with girls, and pretty soon they internalize their being losers untill it becomes part of their own identity.

Literally A Person posted:

I'm dumb and should be mocked for being dumb

Ups_rail posted:

Oh Pick I wish I could go into greater detail about this woman I really do, and trust me as total stranger on the internet she is not a nice or good person. If I could write out all the poo poo I've seen first hand you would condemn her. But given what happened with kiwifarms I really have to show restraint, I will just ad this. She has a child and I got some front row seat time to her destroying her child, with her selfishness.

Instead I will focus on her 2nd husband who lost to a pizza boy, and who she was cheating on at the time.

He had incel traits but he was funny and good looking. I would say that he was in love with his misery in the way that only white upper class suburban teenagers can be. He never loving grew out of it. His firist marriage was to a very heavy lady who got sick of his rear end and left him. He then went for the other big lady. (I honestly wonder if he liked fat women or if some part of it was him wanting someone insecure enough to not leave him)

What he offered her was this,

She didnt have to work,
she could have the new car she wanted,
the apartment she wanted,
trips the themepark she wanted,

He did the cleaning the cooking the laundry
He got his rear end up at 5 to go to work.

In return it was very clear what he wanted from his wife

1) be at home when comes hom
2) Listen to him go over and over about how much of an outcast he was in highschool, and how happy he was to find someone he could truly connect with. (she referred to this tortured pain as and I quote "Emo f*ggot poo poo")

Basically I saw a man do everything his wife wanted giver everything she asked for, and in return he wanted his emotional needs met, and she hated him for it, she even said regarding him that "he let me win too easy" So she left him for a string of physically abusiveness assholes.

These incels strike me as the next progression in such a mentality, they see that they are told X=Y with girls but it doesnt match reality, They get angry and lacking proper coping skills double down on the mentality that they cant ever score, the deck is just stacked against them and boom its their loving identity.

There was a blog I read many many years ago called "the chicks suck guy" it was hosted somewhere I found it back when yahoo was more a directory than a search engine listed in the comedy section. I wish I could find it again and see if there was any overlap with his blog whining about not getting laid and this fuckers on reddit.


Edit: found it https://www.amazon.com/My-Struggle-Chicks-Suck-Guy/dp/1401049648

I am gonna check this out and see if there is any overlap

Slugworth posted:

Franklin was the anti-incel, in that he wrote about how great it was sleeping with older, frumpy women.

i like that posted:

Has the Incel Institute released an official statement for why it's okay for them to abhor women they don't find attractive but not the other way around? What's their logic supposed to be? I'm usually decent at estimating what rationalizations they hold but I don't really have anything here other then women are expected to do all the labour they don't want to/some kind of male exceptionalism

Literally A Person posted:

Barudak posted:

Being Chad.

If its not obvious Calvinism and Incels have extremely similar views on predestination and the elect.

SaltyJesus posted:

mods namechange me to Sex Calvinist tia

e: wait, most Calvinists obviously believe they are clearly one of the predestined ones. a true parallel would be some kind of misotheism, a belief in outcomes predetermined by a malevolent deity

Pick posted:

there was a roman dude who was notorious for his excess because he ate like five fish a day

Elsa posted:

Your first thought isn't your gut reaction?

bloom posted:

fruit is right, "erau oyo hwsi dnoc es knih tou ytahw, thgua tere wuo ytah wsit srif kniht uo yta hw" really makes no sense.

Guy Mann posted:

Pandas don't actually have problems breeding in the wild, it's just that their habitat has been irreparably hosed up by the past few generations of humans and trying breed in captivity is so stressful and unpleasant that it hardly ever takes hold.

So they actually are a great metaphor for how screwed milennials are, just not in the way most people think.

Pac-Manioc Root posted:

Dare I ask what a "roastie" is in the argot of these CHUDs?

Imagined posted:

I'm unfamiliar with this usage of that word.