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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for not making my son give away his second prize? They're right to defend Cameron winning both. tbh - this feels like a failure of the raffle organizers. Most raffles will only allow people to win a single prize. But even if they did that, there was no guarantee that this other brat would have won.
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2024 20:07 |
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# ¿ May 14, 2024 20:22 |
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My fiancé no longer wants to be married until I can prove my faith if genuinequote:I am F 34 and Fiancé is M 32. We started dating in February of 2023 and quickly realized that we wanted a future with each other. In January of 2024, he proposed to me and I was said yes because I love him just as he is and I would not change anything about him. We set a date for July 2024.
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2024 00:18 |
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CommissarMega posted:To be honest, I'm not sure what answer he could have given. If he said "your sister is a 10", she could have easily thought that he found her sister turbo-hot. The only winning move is not to play of course, but given the circumstances, I think a 6-7 was the best answer he could give. "Hrm. I don't know. I've never thought of your sister in that kind of way. She's my sister now too. I don't judge family members in terms of attractiveness."
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2024 18:09 |
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"They don't want to do a wedding ceremony. Also, they want to do a performance that would only be appropriate at a wedding ceremony."
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2024 20:09 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:I read this as "long chest hair" for a second and was all at what kind of mane he could have there that was tough to dry Hella same. But also, as someone with long hair - you don't wash it daily. A few times a week at most. Shower daily at minimum! And wash your rear end in a top hat!
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2024 22:52 |
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Vim Fuego posted:the guy who rates peoples looks by numbers definitely rates everyone Yeah, but you don't have to tell on yourself!
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2024 23:21 |
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AceClown posted:I think most women have old period underwear they throw on when they come on, my wife certainly does anyway Yeah. Definitely. Many women will have a few pairs of "period underwear"
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2024 19:54 |
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sullat posted:Depends on the period. Like Victorian era, sure maybe a couple. But you only need one Edwardian, cause honestly who cares. Maybe a few Tudor if you're really into that. Don't even get me started on Georgian
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2024 20:45 |
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babypolis posted:its her responsability to do her job to the best of her abilities, and if that includes mentoring someone she feels she can help not doing would fail that resposability If she was the only teacher that was available to mentor the kid, I would understand. If there are other teachers available, there is no obligation for her to help. It reads to me like she specifically picks "problem" kids not because she actually cares about the kids but because she gets to feel self-satisfied as "Oh look at me. I did something good. "
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2024 22:40 |
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AITA for not chipping in for our dinner group's babysitting costs?quote:I've had the same group of girlfriends since high school, there are five of us. Each have a kid - well, except me.
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2024 23:12 |
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Shanghaied posted:AITA putting my wife on a strict allowance and making her ask me permission to buy expensive things? Couples that marry but don't combine their finances are disgusting freaks.
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2024 23:43 |
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The Lone Badger posted:She should lean into it and say that yes she absolutely turned her cousin gay and people should be careful how they speak to her if they ever want grandkids. Me when you say that I turned my cousin gay:
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# ¿ Mar 21, 2024 19:27 |
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Shanghaied posted:AITA for giving my wedding guests a dress code? This one is interesting because she specifically says that she asked for no gifts and that guests should keep their money or could spend that money on outfits for themselves if they need. You can throw together a Renfaire-like outfit for under $100, or if you want to be elaborate, you can rent one from a costume shop. My favorite thing is that there is a guy in the comments arguing "You're the rear end in a top hat. A dress code is okay if its for something like black tie, but not this!" Because clearly everyone has black tie attire ready to go at a moments notice. The_Franz posted:If the invitations basically say "thou muſt in olde timey clothes dreſs oneſelf, leſt ye be refuſed entry", then of course people aren't going to be happy: they now have a non-trivial chore to do, which isn't much fun for people not into the whole cosplay thing. Going to any wedding is a chore. These people can get over themselves. Mordiceius fucked around with this message at 19:59 on Mar 21, 2024 |
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John Wick of Dogs posted:I think if you have a wedding theme you do that with the wedding party, officiants, performers, and selected guests who want to, you don't enforce a cosplay dress code on everybody. Literally going to any wedding has a "cosplay" code. That is just usually suits and formal dresses. If I show up to a wedding as a guest in jeans and a t-shirt, people are going to either deny me entry or look at me funny.
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# ¿ Mar 21, 2024 20:07 |
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Desert Bus posted:The last wedding I went to was at a pizza place/mini-golf course/arcade. I asked my friend, the bride, if I should break out my suit and she laughed at me. It was 100% a jeans and t-shirt affair. Oh totally. I just feel like people should understand that weddings may have dress codes and if you're going to attend, you should fit that. About a year ago, my wife and I went to a friend's wedding. It was an Indian wedding. We were told "dress fancy and flashy. we're talkin' bright colors and sequins. you should look like you're about to go perform in Vegas." My wife and I didn't throw a tantrum because we had nothing that fit that style. Instead, we went and bought a suit and dress that would fit (and then returned them to the store after the wedding).
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# ¿ Mar 21, 2024 20:59 |
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Halloween Jack posted:AITA for using a gift card that my roommate’s students got for her? christ - the op just keeps digging with their comments "my family is wealthy but i was put on a strict financial plan because my parents say i overspent, no i have no control over my finances. its my parents fault for not teaching me proper skills. i was justified in taking it because it was sitting there" https://old.reddit.com/user/Karmixloop/comments/
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2024 19:43 |
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AITA for telling my wife the tiramisu was too expensive?quote:Yesterday, my wife didn't get a job she really wanted. She has a job at the moment, but wants to leave and this was a great job for her that didn't work out.
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2024 22:54 |
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rotinaj posted:Probably YTA but impossible to know without having heard the way the OP said it I'm in the YTA camp just based off his delivery. Yes, he did a nice thing to make her happy. She was happy. LEAVE IT AT THAT!!!!!! To then go "I would have gotten you the more expensive one, but it was $15 more expensive" is, to her, saying "You're not worth $15." Dude did the right thing and then completely fumbled at the end. If you're financially strapped, I'm sure she knows that and you don't have to remind her.
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2024 23:42 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:I've had partners and friends who feel better about a gift if it cost less or you got it semi-free (like with credit card reward points), generally they've had bad experiences with someone holding an expensive gift over their head in some way and knowing 'nah, these points are going to expire anyway' helps them not worry about that. But I think even those people wouldn't appreciate 'I picked the cheaper place because the more expensive one was too much to spend on your special dinner', that just gives an 'I don't care' vibe. Exactly. My wife and I both come from fairly poor backgrounds so even though we have well paying jobs now, she can still have a bit of economic anxiety around purchases. So if I tell her "Don't worry, I got your birthday present on sale" it will allow her to enjoy it more. The thing about this story for me is - it was $15. I totally get being in a financial place where an extra $15 could mean a lot, but in the grand scheme of things, $15 is not a lot. And saying "I went with the cheap option because you're not worth the extra $15" when she is already feeling super down about job stuff makes you a loving idiot. I guess it's less of a "You're the rear end in a top hat" and more of a "You're the idiot"
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2024 23:51 |
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Hughlander posted:AITAH - My ex-fiancee tried to get my wife to cheat on me This guy sounds tremendously up tight and boring.
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# ¿ Mar 26, 2024 23:28 |
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Troublemaker posted:Here's some weird poo poo. There's a followup and it isn't a feel good one. CW: suicidal ideation My house almost got broken into and my boyfriend didn't believe me, so we broke up. quote:I lost everything in the space of 3 days - I lost my partner, I lost my safety and I lost the ability to leave my house. My dog is asking to go potty and I literally can't take her because it's after dark and I'm frightened the men are going to hurt me.
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# ¿ Mar 27, 2024 08:20 |
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oops. Already posted
Mordiceius fucked around with this message at 16:11 on Mar 27, 2024 |
# ¿ Mar 27, 2024 16:08 |
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for wanting to take my bio kid to Disney and not including my bonus kids Disneyland is way too loving expensive and completely not worth it in TYOOL 2024. And I say that as someone who lives a 45 minute drive away. If you're as cash strapped as she makes it seem they are - maybe pick a vacation that won't be like $3000 for a single weekend. Mordiceius fucked around with this message at 16:24 on Mar 27, 2024 |
# ¿ Mar 27, 2024 16:19 |
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Quackles posted:AITA for telling my friend she shouldn’t feel threatened by her stepdaughter? Christ, what an rear end in a top hat. (The stepmother, not OP) There is similar drama in the comments too! quote:NTA
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# ¿ Mar 27, 2024 21:07 |
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Hughlander posted:Bit of a long one but kinda :chefkiss: Cheating Wife posted:You guys are right saying that I suck. But he has fault too, he never really wanted to fix this. He used me for months and then discarded me.
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# ¿ Mar 28, 2024 00:41 |
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Hughlander posted:Ok but now we have these wonderful new stories like this one... I was curious which movie she was talking about - quote:I think it was called Late Night and the Devil. It was a horror movie about a late night talk show from the 70s with demon possession and stuff. I thought it was confusing and weird but as always she got to tell me how I missed the point because I’m uneducated in the art of film (kidding of course, she’s not that condescending about it 😆)
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# ¿ Mar 28, 2024 20:06 |
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Mx. posted:My (25F) best friend (24M) proposed to me. I’m confused and mortified. Where can we go from here? I found a picture of the guy who proposed -
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 05:00 |
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Vertigo Ambrosia posted:Man at least Ichiban didn't make it a public proposal though. They were actually on a date too!!
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 05:17 |
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deety posted:I (43m) accidentally insulted my partner (43f) and she has remained cold ever since. And she wears sweats all the time now. This fuggin guy. OP posted:To be fair, I wasn't at all aware that she puts effort into looking nice. I'm not trying to be horrible...I'm being honest. I didn't know she CARED because she never appears to try. OP posted:She said she's not going to get over this and she doesn't feel comfortable with someone who views her like "that" (I guess referencing the dumpy comment). I sent her some links showing her what I meant (fashion blogs showing easy ways to elevate style) but she just argued with me. OP posted:I told her I was sorry for saying that and I love her and I don't care at all how she dresses. Our conversation wasn't about her at all...it was really just a casual conversation about fashion and color. OP posted:Because she asked repeatedly what I mean by saying if she cared so much then she should try to look good. She said she DID look good, and it snowballed from there. Someone on Reddit posted:You have the tact of a brick, and the taste of a guy who thinks Hooters is a date destination.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 18:28 |
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Brawnfire posted:This right here should have been the point at which it hit him, full force, but it just bounced off Women should constantly be adapting their looks exclusively to my specific tastes in fashion and beauty. Why is my wife acting cold toward me?
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 18:40 |
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA For leaving for the weekend after my wife agreed to host Easer at our house without consulting me christ just get divorced already
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 20:27 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:You be the judge: should my girlfriend preheat the oven before cooking? It would probably blow her loving mind to learn that there are some foods where it is recommended to heat up the pan in the oven before even placing the item on the pan.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 20:51 |
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Vim Fuego posted:I don't think anyone lost out here. You either want your BF to have a dream truck or you want him to be miserable. They just learned something important about each other in time to avoid moving in with an incompatible partner Anyone who has "a dream truck" deserves to be miserable. The only reason anyone needs to own a truck is if you are frequently transporting lots of cargo - such as if you work in construction or lawncare. Dudes an office worker. gently caress him. Vim Fuego posted:What gimmick? Giant truck devotion is a lifestyle. There's plenty of people in America that are all about giant trucks, and/or want their partners to have giant trucks. Figuring out where you're at on stuff like this is part of dating These people are, every single time, the worst human beings imaginable and I hope they all get run over by their giant trucks.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 22:17 |
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Hughlander posted:I sure hope op doesn’t think this is over. I also never heard the sound of dueling banjos coming over a post more than this for some reason. Everyone sucks here and it loving rules.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 22:41 |
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"Truck Guys" need to be added to the DSM.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2024 23:12 |
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Mx. posted:update to this one: loving hell. He really is Kasuga!
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# ¿ Mar 30, 2024 05:43 |
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AITA for telling my husband that sometimes I get the "ick" over how he always drinks wine instead of beer?quote:I (31f) have been married to my husband (32m) for 3 years now. I love him and we have a great relationship.
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# ¿ Mar 30, 2024 19:09 |
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lol @ the last three pages just being walls of probes. Big John has come home to roost (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ¿ Mar 31, 2024 22:26 |
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# ¿ May 14, 2024 20:22 |
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the holy poopacy posted:Yeah, I'm all for judging the adult daughter who showed up to her dad's funeral dressed as Hot Topic but kicking her out seems like an overreaction. Dress codes and poo poo are made up and fake anyway and people need to loving get over policing how other people dress. If people want to come and pay respects to the dead, fuckin let them. "You are only allowed here if you dress a certain way" is dumb cringe poo poo.
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# ¿ Apr 1, 2024 20:27 |