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Barudak posted:Your wife cheated on you within three days of getting married, then instantly bullied you into accepting she get hallf your stuff while she fucks a guy who you live with and your trying to make it work. Even a dog would have poo poo on her rug and run away by this point. quote:Apparently 3 days after the wedding my wife fell in love with our mutual best friend (29 F) less funny or more? you decide!
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PleasingFungus posted:less funny or more? you decide! I think its the second time Ive been burned by that so either someday ill learn or my name will be a term for an assumed gendering error and I live in the streets wearing a sackclothe while wailing and gnashing my teeth.
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Haifisch posted:I [25 F] think i'm poly, my BF [29 M] of 3 years shot me down pretty hard, dunno what to do. [xpost /polyamory] quote:That being said, my libido gradually diminished over time to his chagrin and we struggled with that for a while. I stopped taking the pill and things improved a little bit but i still feel like crap for how things unfolds as i'm reallyu the one responsible for it. cool, she's gonna get pregnant, can't see any way that'll make the situation worse
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lol posted:The next day was unbearable to me but we met again, and his answer was pretty straightforward : 
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Jul 9, 2017 04:24
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I did some soul searching and I learned that my sexuality is: people who aren't you. Let's find a way to make this work. For us.
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Jul 9, 2017 04:32
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What's the difference between "I think I'm poly" and "I want to gently caress other people"?
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People think the former makes it sound better Oh and also "you get to gently caress other people too!"
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cumshitter posted:I did some soul searching and I learned that my sexuality is: people who aren't you. Let's find a way to make this work. For us. We can make it work. Go ahead and move out so I can get to work on another relationship. I'm glad we had this talk.
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"""progressive""" cred
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The Lone Badger posted:What's the difference between "I think I'm poly" and "I want to gently caress other people"? One is someone that wants the stability of dual incomes and the other is ready to be single.
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Not quite pete levels of laconic greatness but pretty good. Savoring the mental image of her "reading books" and studying up, prepared for a big debate and overcoming his objections and he's just all "Nahhh."
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Blue Train posted:People think the former makes it sound better Except this part is a lie.
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Dienes posted:Except this part is a lie. Yea that poo poo is a trick
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No poo poo I had a gal I was casually dating want to go steady except it would be an open relationship except that we could only gently caress people we'd already met no actively seeking new ones and except also in some nebulous way I would also be expected to screw fewer side people because the dumb "scoreboard" talk had come up in the past and I had more belt notches than her so it was only "fair" that she got to catch up or w/e. Needless to say I didn't go for it.
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Jul 9, 2017 05:18
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I once had an ex who really wanted to get back together and I told him it was only going to happen in a casual dating non exclusive situation and that I would be seeing other people. He actually agreed with the stipulation that he didn't hear about any of it. It was pretty funny and I still can't believe he went for it.
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Jul 9, 2017 05:26
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Seems like he had the right idea if he just wanted to gently caress
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Jul 9, 2017 05:31
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Actually he was really salty about the whole thing and kept trying to make an actual relationship happen.
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Jul 9, 2017 05:34
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darkhand posted:"""progressive""" cred Nah is more of a way of getting laid without having to give up your stable comfy relationship.
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Jul 9, 2017 05:40
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CharlestheHammer posted:Nah is more of a way of getting laid without having to give up your stable comfy relationship. Oh they will dress it up in the pieties of liberal identitarianism and victim fetishization though. "How dare you deny my my ~sexual identity~ jealousy is the tool of ~abusers~."
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:Oh they will dress it up in the pieties of liberal identitarianism and victim fetishization though. "How dare you deny my my ~sexual identity~ jealousy is the tool of ~abusers~." Some will but the majority don't seem too.
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CharlestheHammer posted:Some will but the majority don't seem too. Yeah fair but I seen a few in this here thread that did.
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Guildenstern Mother posted:Actually he was really salty about the whole thing and kept trying to make an actual relationship happen. lovely
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Jul 9, 2017 05:47
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Barudak posted:As a poly person you should understand compersion. Is compersion what happens to the mattress when three grossly overweight people are using it instead of two?
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Pick posted:I was in love with a guy with autism and he treated me horribly and I put up with it for over 10 years, even past the point of utter absurdity. That is ultimately the story. I married someone with a severe mental illness and saw more hosed up poo poo in 2 years than you saw in 10 with Hugh and I got over it. Get over yourself.
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Jul 9, 2017 05:58
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Poly people rarely have all three people using it at the same time
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Guildenstern Mother posted:Actually he was really salty about the whole thing and kept trying to make an actual relationship happen. You're garbage 
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epsilon posted:You're garbage 🙄
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I broke the rules of our open marriage, and really don't know what to do. (28m, 30f, 20f, 26f, and ~40m)quote:Wasn't sure if this would be well received in /r/polyamory, so I am posting here. I think this is a larger subreddit and maybe I can get a wider array of opinions.
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Jul 9, 2017 06:02
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so he wasn't even allowed to talk to other women? Lol that's not poly friend
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Jul 9, 2017 06:08
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Oh my God, people. Poly is a relationship format, not a sexuality.
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Blue Train posted:so he wasn't even allowed to talk to other women? Lol that's not poly friend It sounds like he was supposed to bring them home and induct them into his wife's harem before he could gently caress them, which was probably going to be a lot more work and a lot less successful than just having one night stands with barflies.
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Yeah that relationship is less poly and more him acting as her hype man
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Haifisch posted:I [25 F] think i'm poly, my BF [29 M] of 3 years shot me down pretty hard, dunno what to do. [xpost /polyamory]
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Haifisch posted:I [25 F] think i'm poly, my BF [29 M] of 3 years shot me down pretty hard, dunno what to do. [xpost /polyamory] I like how these people who can't keep a libido up for one partner think they're going to make a relationship with multiple partners work in the event that you DO somehow make that happen you're just going to crush your partner when they realize they're incapable of fulfilling your needs and you prefer having sex with other people if you're not d2f all the time you should probably stick to one partner instead of trying to have variety in your sex life among long term partners. if you can't meet the needs of partner one, what makes you think you can meet the needs of partner two?
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Haifisch posted:I broke the rules of our open marriage, and really don't know what to do. (28m, 30f, 20f, 26f, and ~40m) Lol I'm not even against poly relationships but if you post something to Reddit with that many goddamn people involved I'm gonna have a laugh at your expense for sure. Good luck with your clusterfuck of a relationship lmao
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Magikarpal Tunnel posted:It's also great if you have different sleeping patterns or habits. Also during the summer. I would hate to have to share a bed in the summer. Just wanted to say thank you for this - my boyfriend and I have discussed moving in together with this arrangement and it's nice to see someone else is doing this and having success, even if everyone around us thinks it's weird. 
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Haifisch posted:I [25 F] think i'm poly, my BF [29 M] of 3 years shot me down pretty hard, dunno what to do. [xpost /polyamory] I had to go over to reddit to see what the comments were for this one. r/relationships had the most responses compared to the bare handful from the crosspost to the poly subreddit. Only a couple responses there were sane telling her that she has to decide what she wants and if she's sticking with him, she's going to have to work on rebuilding trust. The rest was one guy who said his wife's poly and he was against it too until she made him go to therapy which made him come around to it because of his flaws and the others all saying she did nothing wrong and it's the boyfriend's fault. I'm still smirking over how she built it up to nitpick him on his "flaws" and convert him to poly and completely got blindsided that he read up on it himself and gave a firm No. If there was ever an update, I couldn't find it.
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Haifisch posted:I broke the rules of our open marriage, and really don't know what to do. (28m, 30f, 20f, 26f, and ~40m) Im curious what the update is but good on the other woman realizing this dude is an unmoored boat that she just needs to apply s teensy bit of pressure to have him go where she wants.
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Drunk Nerds posted:As a guy who has had to wash up his vomit covered, really attractive female friends on more than one occasion, I can definitively say that it is not sexy in the slightest. Been there way back in the drinking days. Oh no, my crush is puking and fading in and out of consciousness, but still trying to get in her car. I guess I'm just going to carry her hundred pound rear end the five blocks to her apartment, clean her up a bit, change her vomity shirt, tuck her in laying on her side propped up with some stuff and then stop by her boyfriend's house on the way back home and let him know what's up. Literally the least sexy thing possible.
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Haifisch posted:I broke the rules of our open marriage, and really don't know what to do. (28m, 30f, 20f, 26f, and ~40m) lol at this part though, poo poo was fine when it meant he got to gently caress some college girl but then another penis got involved so now it's a problem
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