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My (20f) boyfriend (24m) has brought a drill and keeps going on about how manly he is and is being annoying.quote:My boyfriend, we have been together for 2 years, has recently brought a drill. This on its own is fine but this drill has made him go very weird. He wanted me to be there when he picked it out for some reason, Like he picked me up we drove to the place he brought it and he dropped me back home.
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:26 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:there is definitely some part of picky eating that’s not down to parenting though; like I was always down to try any food, whereas my sister ate nothing but peach yogurt and fish sticks from 3-5, but then got over it and has no picky eating issues. so, idk
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:26 |
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Beachcomber posted:It's not necessarily set in stone. I would literally (literally literally) not eat anything but mashed potatoes and gravy for more than a year when I was three. Then it was grilled ham and cheese. Any restaurant we went to had to have one of those. I apparently had incredible willpower. Wish I had saved some. Yeah I definitely outgrew a dislike for certain things (onions, mushrooms, asparagus) that I now consider delicious. There's some degree of your palate changing over time and some degree of simply becoming more mature that leads to a willingness to basically try anything that others already eat People who aren't willing to try new food have the maturity level of a small child, is what I'm saying
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:34 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (20f) boyfriend (24m) has brought a drill and keeps going on about how manly he is and is being annoying. Your boyfriend feels threatened by your ability to fix things yourself and is trying to make himself feel masculine. Throw him (and his drill) into a nearby lake.
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:35 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:Deadbeat "partner" of ten yearls What keeps killing your Jarls so fast youve gone through 10 of them?
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:36 |
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Barudak posted:What keeps killing your Jarls so fast youve gone through 10 of them?
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:41 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (20f) boyfriend (24m) has brought a drill and keeps going on about how manly he is and is being annoying. Your boyfriend is actually a bunch of 3 year olds in a trench coat
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# ? Sep 22, 2019 23:45 |
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QuarkJets posted:Your boyfriend is actually a bunch of 3 year olds in a trench coat I can't believe she never got to the part where he started sharing content from a Power Tools Memes facebook page
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:08 |
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Careful, someone got mad at me when I used that gif in this thread.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:09 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (20f) boyfriend (24m) has brought a drill and keeps going on about how manly he is and is being annoying. I'm always amused by these stories because I learned how to use tools from my momma. When you're living in the middle of nowhere "housewife" means "first on the scene if anything breaks" and she learned a lot of basic maintenance and passed it on to me. Dad taught me how to saw a board, but mom showed me how to build poo poo. Most of the reason I'm amused is that I'm rather aware of a lot of other stupid masculinity baggage I deal with in one way or another, but that one completely missed me.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:14 |
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A poly horror story. Make sure you have set non-negotiable rules and that your partner isn't abusive.quote:TLDR: We went poly, wife refused to ever set boundaries, moved her boyfriend in against my wishes, we’re getting a divorce, she blames me for abandoning her. Her boyfriend still lives with us.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:15 |
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I have known people who have wonderful poly relationships, but man when those things go bad they go REALLY bad.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:20 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:A poly horror story. Make sure you have set non-negotiable rules and that your partner isn't abusive. woof lol
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:47 |
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:hnnnnnngh gepetto help i'm trying to become a real boy but i'm dummy thicc and the clap of my wooden asscheeks keeps bedeviling me with whale attacks
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:48 |
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Bruceski posted:I have known people who have wonderful poly relationships, but man when those things go bad they go REALLY bad. I have never seen a poly relationship that didn’t degrade quickly before absolutely exploding with as much drama as humanly possible.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:48 |
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I(30f) filmed my sister(27f) after she got blackout drunk at my 4 year old cousins birthday party. How can I tell her she has a problem? My(30f) sister (27F) enjoys to drink alcohol but she drinks to get out of control drunk. She will knock them back at home, nights out with friends and family get togethers - basically, any excuse for a drink. She is very extroverted, loud and has minimal responsibilities (no kids/mortgage) etc. Last night, we went to my cousins kids 4 year old's birthday party. It was a very low key night, kids were in their pj's by 7pm, bed by 9pm. Adults were watching tv and just drinking beer and chatting. Everyone was enjoying themselves and having fun and over the time I noticed my sister get louder and speech slurred to the point people were mocking her and asking how much she'd had. She would loudly admit she was drunk, laughing and brush off their comments. During this time, I was also drinking but I began to slow down as I realised I would be responsible in making sure we got home ok. She fell asleep as my cousin and I were talking, woke up, swore at us all and said she'd wait outside for me (this was at 10:30pm). I realised this was my cue to leave, gathered my things and we started walking home. This isn't the first time I've had to carry her home, we are a close family and have a gathering at least once every 2 months. My cousin luckily lives a 5 minute walk from my mum's house so it didn't warrant ordering a taxi and made sense to walk home. Within the first few steps, she fell off the curb into the road and I helped her up and put the torch on my phone to use as a light. This is when I decided to film the events as I wasn't particularly happy about her state but almost everyone in the family has had words with her about her drinking and she just brushes it off. I filmed two videos that last for 2 mins each which show her stumbling up the road and at one point trying to fall asleep on wet grass and then unable to get herself up, cars driving past. We eventually get her home after 20 minutes of negotiation and propping her up, I made sure she got to bed with some water. She was fine this morning, usual hangover symptoms and laughed her actions off. I have these videos and haven't shown them to anyone. I am in two minds wether to delete them or to show them to her so she can see the state she gets in. She is very defensive when the family try and address her drinking and love of alcohol and will immediately start arguing with people saying 'I don't care, I don't want to hear it'. My family are worried about her as she's been like this since the age of 16 (from the UK, legal age is 18 here). We've lost an Aunt to cirrhosis of the liver from alcohol abuse and a cousin who was born with Foetal Alcohol Syndrome so it's not like she's unaware of the damage that alcohol can do to your body when you abuse it. This isn't the worst that she's been but at 27, she needs to deal with her demons in a more constructive way that isn't at the end of a bottle. I don't expect her to quit alcohol, but to be aware of the states that she can get in and to be more drink aware. How can I approach this in the best way, ideally without her going straight to defensive mode. TL;DR: My sister has a history of alcohol abuse, refuses to accept it and I finally got video footage of her. Should I show it to her and accept that she will likely hate me for filming it or chalk it up to another night out?
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:57 |
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AITA for telling my wife to never bring up my dead wife’s name ever again? My dead wife is always going to hold a special place in my heart. It’s not like I talk about her all the time, but I do have tons of pictures of her/letters from her that I keep and I have them all sitting in an attic. Sometimes I will reminisce when no one is around, it’s not like I do it often. But I feel like I owe her that much and she didn’t die with us not loving each other. I just got married to my newer wife two years ago. She’s great and all, but one time she got pissed at me. When I wrote something on fb about my dead wife, It wasn’t even bad. I’m friends with her family on Facebook still and they came to my wedding. It was just a small tribute. So I said I wouldn’t do it again. Then she got mad a different time because she found me looking at photos/reading notes from her that I still have. She said I need to let her go, and that she knows that I loved her but your life is with me now. I don’t do this often, it’s just on occasion. The final straw is she saw me comment on a family members fb about her. Then she said this... do you love her or me more? And she wanted me to answer the question. I told her enough, and I never want her bringing up her name again. Never do I want her to say her loving name again and drop it. Basically, I did tell her to shut the f*** up. She told me I’m not sleeping with her tonight and go sleep on the couch and gently caress off. Here’s the thing, out of respect for my current wife. I do not bring up my dead wife often. I try to avoid talking about her altogether because of how she feels. I do these things all away from her, and she’s still judging me for it.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 00:59 |
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That poo poo reads like the dudes chick just started cheating on him and he was too emotionally pussified to be like, yo this chick is dating other people without me so he adopted some alt-left modern polyamory post-flower-children-militant-women’s-sexual-liberation-front ideals without really taking a look at any of the emotional content and now he’s just a couch ornament in his chicks crib. It wasn’t like hey I want to include this person in our relationship, do we all love each other? Not like hey, I’m on the bleeding edge of forward culture because I was passive about my chick cheating on me.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:00 |
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Oh goodness - LARP Weddings I've always heard that the people who worked at renaissance fairs were hypersexualized freaks, because it was a combination of being a drama kid, a camp counselor, and a carnie all wrapped up in one. This traumatized veteran dude goes to LARP events with his married girlfriend and comes across several ex-wives in the process. What a rogue. No wonder she loves him.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:09 |
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/r/relationships: did i mention my wife's boyfriend got her into larping.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:11 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:A poly horror story. Make sure you have set non-negotiable rules and that your partner isn't abusive. I decided to look up the previous stories to test a hypothesis First of all, don't create a throwaway account and then immediately state what the titles of all of your previous posts were. It took 1 search to find all of these. What a moron I don't think these other stories I dug up are worth posting because polyamory posts are always depressing and wordy as hell, but the summary of what happened was this guy's wife convinced him to open the relationship, then she and her new boyfriend began to steadily push him away until bam divorce time began to happen, and they're still living in the house rent-free. Basically it's the only honest retelling of "polyamory" that I've ever seen, where 1 partner is just too spineless to do anything about their SO steadily moving on to a new relationship while continuing to live there while begging for scraps of affection. My hypothesis was that he was the one who wanted to open the relationship but I think I was wrong, this isn't one of those "ask for open relationship, get owned" situations it's instead "my partner is loudly banging their new lover in my bed, how do I ask them to keep it down so I can get some sleep on our pull-out sofa" situations
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Smirking_Serpent posted:/r/relationships: did i mention my wife's boyfriend got her into larping. New thread title.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:28 |
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Speaking of, does anyone have the link to that op ed about the guy claiming to be happy that he helped his wife's boyfriend construct an add-on/spare room for him? E: Wait, I think the article was by the wife, claiming the husband was happy to construct it.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:28 |
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Bruceski posted:I'm not familiar with judo or the risks involved. Naturally people get injured by accident in this sort of thing, but is that something that can just happen or some Cobra Kai poo poo? i wouldn't know, i never did judo myself but afaik in regards to physics and gravity that's typically how it goes when the incompetent league matches you up with someone who's 50-60lbs heavier than you are "because we need everyone to have a match"
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LadyPictureShow posted:Speaking of, does anyone have the link to that op ed about the guy claiming to be happy that he helped his wife's boyfriend construct an add-on/spare room for him? I remember that! That was posted like a long while ago though PHIZ KALIFA posted:hnnnnnngh gepetto help i'm trying to become a real boy but i'm dummy thicc and the clap of my wooden asscheeks keeps bedeveling me with whale attacks This should've been the new thread title
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:32 |
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AITA for eating my siblings wasted meals during a road trip?quote:A couple days my family and I went on a road trip to Florida to go and visit family. Since the drive would be long and we didn’t want to stop that much and spend money, my mom made alot of sandwiches for us the whole family to eat at various times. (For clarification, I’m 20, and my younger brother and sister are 14 and 16 respectively). I like the implication that his rotundness necessitates that he eat more, also shout out to the extra-fat brother's use of "fatphobic" in response to people complaining that he ate enough food for 3 people e: Favorite comment quote:I'm wondering if this is party sub guy trying to trick us into a double standard.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:32 |
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I believe the trick to a good poly relationship is to keep it a deep dark secret. The magical spell is broken if the truth is ever shared, and then the whole thing bursts into flames. Edit: You're talking about an article, and the husband was building a man shed for himself while the boyfriend moved into the main house. The built the shed together while the wife watched proudly. Dazerbeams fucked around with this message at 01:38 on Sep 23, 2019 |
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I've probably said this before, but it's hard enough for me to keep up with a single person and her needs while dating and such. How in the heck are these poly weirdos able to juggle multiple relationships like they're min-maxing their sex RPG stats?
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:41 |
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They don't put any effort into any of their relationships. The whole idea is that you can't be someone's everything. So they don't try to improve or adapt themselves in any way. It's a take it or leave it situation and they plug and play a bunch of different bodies into their lives rather then work on a particular bond with one individual.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:44 |
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Dazerbeams posted:I believe the trick to a good poly relationship is to keep it a deep dark secret. The magical spell is broken if the truth is ever shared, and then the whole thing bursts into flames. The good ol cuck shack https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/07/style/modern-love-when-a-boyfriend-joins-the-marriage.html quote:When a Boyfriend Joins the Marriage
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I've probably said this before, but it's hard enough for me to keep up with a single person and her needs while dating and such. How in the heck are these poly weirdos able to juggle multiple relationships like they're min-maxing their sex RPG stats? Because Ive yet to see any of them who arent. Like the best functioning one Ive ever seen was basically a harem with all the power imbalance that pertains to.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:46 |
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Bruceski posted:I have known people who have wonderful poly relationships, but man when those things go bad they go REALLY bad. It's kind of like high-school relationships. Lots of people know a couple who has made one work, and so they convince themselves "Hey, I can make it work too!" not realizing the failure rate is like 99%. So they see their relationship failing and are super in denial about it because "Becky had a relationship like ours and she's so happy!!!"
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:50 |
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Dazerbeams posted:I believe the trick to a good poly relationship is to keep it a deep dark secret. The magical spell is broken if the truth is ever shared, and then the whole thing bursts into flames. Polyamory is how scientists discovered the quantum phenomena of superposition, if you attempt to talk about or observe any of the extraneous relationships in a polycule then the wavefunction collapses and you wind up with a radioactive lump of dramanium True story Einstein was in a polyamorous relationship with his first wife and his first cousin () for about 2 years but then someone asked him about it and then he was just in one monogomous relationship (with his cousin). That's when he made his famous quote about "spooky action at a distance" QuarkJets fucked around with this message at 01:53 on Sep 23, 2019 |
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At last, another prank gone right Aita for wearing the “joke” bikini my friend got me? quote:So it was my birthday couple months ago. Had a party. Got some gifts. My friend “Mandy” for me a “super cute bikini”. I liked it. Said thanks. She had ripped the tags off but whatever.
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:53 |
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Wizzanthos posted:The good ol cuck shack Yesssssss! You're the best! Though I'd forgotten people were calling it the cuck shack lol
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I've probably said this before, but it's hard enough for me to keep up with a single person and her needs while dating and such. How in the heck are these poly weirdos able to juggle multiple relationships like they're min-maxing their sex RPG stats? when you and your wife's bf finish the cuck shack and level up in carpentry https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KN7UboYau_k
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QuarkJets posted:
play boob games, win boob prizes
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# ? Sep 23, 2019 01:57 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:when you and your wife's bf finish the cuck shack and level up in carpentry Can I be the archer in this polycule? You can be the thief.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Can I be the archer in this polycule? You can be the thief. i call LARPer *rolls d20* I summon a plate of 11 chicken tenders and *rolls d6 while checking notes* ranch sauce
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