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Pinecone Sample posted:My boyfriend is filthy, please help That person posted another one about the same scenario Am I wrong for feeling this way? What do you think? I’m sick of it!!! quote:I am 23 female, my boyfriend is 22 male. We’ve been on and off for 8 years. I’ve moved out my moms house when I was 21 (my choice) and had 2 different living spaces. He never moved out and is very close with his mother. I stop being a sugar baby for him and I’m getting fed up. He wants me to cook for him .... which I don’t mind but since it’s 4 other people living in the house he’s saying I have to cook for everybody if I do cook. I feel like I shouldn’t! I’m not buying food to cook for a family I’m buying food to cook for us. Cooking for all his little brothers and his mom the food won’t even last one night for leftovers!!! He don’t even deserve my cooking. Same with wanting me to clean but his house is FILTHY. His family is so dirty and they’ve been that way for since I met him when he was 15 (roaches, mice, mouse chatter from eating the styrofoam of days old food, dirty clothes everywhere, old food/dishes in the bedroom etc) I come from a CLEAN HOME AND BACKGROUND! NEVER HAD MICE OR ROACH PROBLEM!!! I don’t feel like I should clean WHEN HE DOESNT EVEN CLEAN UP AFTER HIMSELF! WHY SHOULD I CLEAN AFTER A GROWN MAN WHO DOESNT CLEAN AFTER HIMSELF!!???? If I clean he won’t even keep it up because he’s dirty! I’m not the type to cook or clean for men. I feel like I am the prize and men should cater to me (thus me being a sugar baby for so long) it’s not even like he’s doing anything extravagant for me to be cooking and cleaning. Last week he said I spent $400 this week on us, it’s like I didn’t get any of that. It’s not like we’re going to expensive restaurants like Ruth Chris, STK, R2L .... it’s Chile’s and super overpriced drinks, and little hood bars. If he gave me $400 to go towards the tuition that I am now paying myself since I’m stopped sugaring, I wouldn’t mind bc money is actually being use to something useful. (He knows this & knows I stopped sugaring for the sake of our relationship) I’m a girlfriend not a wife. When talking to my mom idk how the conversation came about but she said “he still live with his mom?!😕🤨” she sounded really disappointed because she know I can do better. He’s a great guy and I love him dearly but idk what to do. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Over the years I’ve been exposed to different people and life situations that caused me to level up and he’s still in the same space, so I guess you can say I’ve changed. He’s sensitive and gets defensive easily. Idk what to do. Of course I should leave but that’s easier said then done!! I don’t want to sound ungrateful I’m thankful for everything he does for me. Am I wrong for feeling this type of way?
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2019 03:21 |
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# ¿ May 14, 2024 01:22 |
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Rent-A-Cop posted:She's obviously not a business genius. She distributed shares without a right of first refusal, so that's a given
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# ¿ Dec 31, 2019 16:30 |
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weird to standard Americans
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# ¿ Dec 31, 2019 17:03 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I tell my exes new wife that her ring was actually mine that I bought? yes but do it anyway
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# ¿ Jan 1, 2020 01:11 |
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AITA for giving my stepdaughter candy for Christmas but consciously choosing not to give any to my stepson?quote:I have two gorgeous stepkids, my 15 year old stepdaughter Alex and my 12 year old stepson James. Things are usually.. usually...great in our home, I’m very lucky that I have 2 chill children that have made me feel very welcome.
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# ¿ Jan 1, 2020 02:24 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:Hm. I guess I'm just not seeing how it would really even be possible. Sounds like everything happened really fast. quote:She ends up going down in the pit, and another dude trips over her and lands on her hard. I can see she's crying and screaming. The pit stops and some other girls pull her out. She's bleeding from her arm and goes to the bar, and I can see she's bleeding. She's pointing at her arm, screaming. I can't hear poo poo.
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# ¿ Jan 1, 2020 19:32 |
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Power Khan posted:Why would you vote her TA? There's a lot of comments that imply they... didn't. It seems the consensus was NTA, and then they added that edit anyway
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# ¿ Jan 1, 2020 23:35 |
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WIBTA if I refuse to let a person fully join our coven.quote:We've had a problem in our coven. We started of with only a few people but have been growing rapidly we now have ~12 dedicants and full-member as well as 6 new seekers. It's an entirely closed door, totally secret coven and no one has spilled anything, they take an oath not to. However, we've had a problem with some of the seekers.
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# ¿ Jan 2, 2020 03:24 |
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Lucrece posted:WIBTA if I didn’t replace my roommates liquor? My grandparents bought a bottle of some alcoholic beverage when I was born and gave it me on my 21st. I left it at my parents and they drunk it. They justified this because I don’t drink and I don’t really know my grandparents that well so it wasn’t sentimental. AITA
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# ¿ Jan 2, 2020 05:16 |
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AITA for lying to my in-laws about actively trying to have a child.quote:My wife and I are in our early 30s no children and no plans on ever having children. My wife is an only child and her parents are constantly pressuring us to have children. Every Christmas when we visit them this subject turns into a huge argument between my wife and her parents because she’s very adamant about not having children. This year I decided to interact with them differently and pretend like we’re actively trying to have children. When I told them we’re finally ready to have children and we’re actively trying they were overwhelmed with joy. Their entire attitude was extremely positive and the dinner was peaceful and full of laughs. They would ask me how many children I wanted and I would respond I’m not stopping till I have one of each. I would ask them parenting questions and their answers were so cheerful and they would Reminisce about when my wife was a child. My MIL even gave me unsolicited sex advice to get my wife pregnant.
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# ¿ Jan 2, 2020 17:35 |
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA? I got mad because my sister bailed on my wedding. It's in 2 days and she's the Maid of Honour. quote:It's my fiance's dad who's getting weird about kids. It's a really small wedding and the only people invited who have kids under 18 are my siblings. Brother has asked my sister if she can watch nieces so now my brother and sister in law are coming but not my actual sister. they've planned their entire wedding around his family's every whim and last minute demands because otherwise they won't go, which is resulting in her sister being unable to go, and her sister is the bad guy here
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# ¿ Jan 2, 2020 19:36 |
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edit: this was supposed to be a validation post stop saying i'm the rear end in a top hat edit 2: come on guys please edit 3: gently caress you all you ruined it
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# ¿ Jan 2, 2020 22:29 |
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AITA for telling a mcdonalds manager a kid took off their socks
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# ¿ Jan 3, 2020 03:25 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I don't wear a dress to my sister's wedding? The best part is the comments where the OP explains her sister doesn't talk to any of her other family and has literally 0 friends
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# ¿ Jan 3, 2020 23:41 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:If she has her room, are we allowed to have guests stay in there if we have family visit? Is the dog allowed in there? We were planning on having a small office space for me in the second bedroom, where will that go if she is occupying that room? they made a reddit post before having a conversation with the person they're moving a long distance to move in with after being in a relationship for 8 months this'll go well, regardless of the secret friend issue
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 01:13 |
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as a physician's assistant let me explain how I know more about a patient than their doctor
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 03:36 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [21F] boyfriend [23M] gets my attention when he does disturbing things in video games. same OP 4 months ago: AITA for confronting my boyfriend about an Instagram model when I already knew the answer? quote:So, this all stared because my boyfriend was nice enough to install one of his old hard drives or something onto my old computer to try and help it run faster.
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 04:21 |
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AITA for not caring about the well being of the planet?quote:So I recently went out with this girl and things went pretty well. For our second date I invited her to my home and she looked through my fridge and saw that I had plastic water bottles. She began to lecture me about it saying things about the ocean and what not. I flat out told her I couldn’t give less of a gently caress about sea turtles or dolphins or whatever the hell else she was talking about. To my surprise she decided to leave within 10 minutes of being there. I ended up wasting the entire meal I was prepared to cook. It honestly left such a bad taste in my mouth that I’ve gone out of my way to buy even more plastic water bottles. I Snapchatted her a picture of the the 10 packs of 24 plastic bottles of water I bought with the caption “lol gently caress the fishes”
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 06:39 |
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AITA for blocking my friend after she threw a pregnancy party for her cat, while inviting multiple pregnant people and people struggling to conceive?quote:I (24f) have a friend (26) who has always been avidly child free. I've known her for 12 years and she's always hated kids and talked poo poo about babies. I personally don't mind that she's like this, although it is annoying when she goes on rants about how ugly people's babies are, and I've known her to call toddlers assholes.
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 15:32 |
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ad090 posted:AITA for telling my partner that I genuinely think it would be easier to be a single mother? It probably would be easier to be the single mother of 2 children than 3 children
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 19:09 |
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[35F] finds guy I'm dating [40M] for 5 weeks kind of cringeyquote:About two months ago I got back on Tinder and matched with a guy who I was sort of meh about. I gave him my number and we started texting, anyway. It turns out he was someone from my hometown. I realized he was a guy that I thought was hot when I was 14 and he was a ref at a highschool wrestling match. I never even talked to him so that's as far as it went. According to him, when I was 22, I approached him at a bar and told him about this. Nothing happened again. I agreed to meet for dinner. That night he apparently postes this whole story on his Facebook and said something about if he ends up missing he went out the way he wanted. Weird. quote:I was pulling something out of the freezer case at the grocery store and he ofc had the dog in his bag. I feel him grab the crotch of my jeans and make some cutesey noise. I said stop loving doing that, now. He says to the dog, oh we mades hers mads.
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 21:19 |
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My [29M] girlfriend [28F] has started pulling away after I said she’d been acting clingy lately. What do I do?quote:We’ve dated for four months nearly and she spent Christmas with my family for 7 days. During the time we were away she exhibited “clingy” moments such as, why I suddenly wasn’t hugging her a certain way in bed (she thought she’d done something wrong) and another moment was basically I was trying to settle my dog that kept jumping up between us and I had to sit on the floor to settle her for a few hours. My gf said said that she missed me being on the sofa with her that evening.
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 22:38 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:BF pissing in bathroom sink posted:It all goes down the same way, and its being actively flushed whilst hes doing it if the tap is running. Do you pee in the shower? Its the same thing, I dont see the issue as long as he cleans it posted:Lol, it’s a little gross but “disrespectful”? He was pissing in the sink, not on your carpet. Just ask him not to piss in the sink anymore and make him clean it. posted:How is it disrespectful? I pissed in the sink all through college when I lived In the dorms and now it really doesn’t bother me. Kinda more convenient sometimes. Might be kinda gross but not disrespectful. Weirder to shame him so hard just over pissing posted:it’s all pipes, what’s the difference??
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# ¿ Jan 4, 2020 23:29 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for giving my husbands affair child (now adult) money and a job? Retroactively divorce this guy 20 years ago
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2020 04:22 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Walked in living room to parents on drugs?
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2020 17:09 |
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I (25f) think I'm in love with my boyfriend's (42m) half-son (23m)quote:I've been dating my boyfriend "John" for 5 months. We have a significant age difference but he's very understanding of a more open relationship. We have a lot of fun together and share a lot of the same interests. I care a lot about him so when he asked if I wanted to meet his half-son, "Jake", I saw no issue. We all went out to dinner and his son and I had immediate chemistry. We kept making long eye contact and looking at each other first when laughing, lots of internet jokes and anime references etc. We had some drinks and were having a fun time so we all went back to John's to watch a movie. During the movie John and I were holding hands with me in the middle. I kept feeling this burning sensation to hold Jake's hand. I didn't want to, I don't want to hurt John, but it's just that intense feeling you get when you're really into someone. I excused myself to go to bed while they finished the movie.
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 14:11 |
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How can I [m/23] get my GF [f/22] to agree to my fetish and not find it weird?quote:So to make a long story short we both love each other but she has admitted she is contemplating breaking up with me due to my fetish.
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 16:24 |
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DemoneeHo posted:My [18f] boyfriend [18m] wanted to open up our relationship now that we are at uni, but is now mad that I'm getting a lot more action than him https://thehardtimes.net/blog/help-my-wife-and-i-started-an-open-relationship-and-it-turns-out-shes-significantly-more-attractive-than-i-am/
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 16:46 |
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he cheated on her with her dad obvs
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 17:49 |
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Hobo Clown posted:AITA for kicking out my uncle from the house even though he pays rent? mom's so pissed she's returned from beyond the grave to tell him he sucks
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 19:36 |
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My (23m) father (67m) wants my sperm to impregnate the woman (39f) he cheated on my mother (62f) with 13 years agoquote:Truly, the title says most of it.
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 20:38 |
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on the other other hand he could do the drat shopping himself
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2020 20:54 |
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DandyLion posted:Delicious. Finally a grown rear end shitburger learns when you gently caress up those who you are supposed to love you suffer. Just a shame it took him his whole life to figure it out. reddit convinced her she’s the rear end in a top hat and she’s going to invite him
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 00:45 |
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DandyLion posted:What next, are you gonna tell me Santa isn't real? Santa’s real and he posts in /r/shortcels
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 00:53 |
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[M19] I fell in love with a prostitute and I think she likes me too but...quote:A week ago I visited a room rental in which you can also spend some time with a girl. So I am not talking about a
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 12:57 |
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I've(M14) been dating this really nice girl, (F15) that I've known for a long time, and idk how to let her down.quote:Recently i went through the hardest breakup I've ever been through and my life crumbled with it. I finally have everything under control again and I have my life back in place after months of rebuilding it. And a really good friend asked me out. I've been dating this girl for about a month or so and we've known each other for around two years prior. We've been best friends and I know she had had a lot of failure with guys. She has liked me basically since we met and I've known since. She asked me out after I had known for about a year and I told her that I was going to think about it and so I did for a couple of months and finally told her yes after some thought. After we went on our first date and I kissed her and she told me it was "the best day of her life" and ever since she's said she loves me plenty of times and she is very genuine. The problem im having is when I'm around her and talking to her I think I love her but when I'm not like right now I'm not too sure. I'm having doubts about it and idk if it's right. She's a really sweet girl and I'd hate to break her heart but idk how to let her down without breaking her mentally. I know I love her but just not in a romantic way like I thought. There's this other girl I want to take my chances with but I obviously want to resolve this matter first and idk how so please help.
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 16:56 |
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her entire thigh!!!!!
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 17:11 |
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Power Khan posted:Is it normal for 2 year cohabit girlfriend to not wait for you while out with friends? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_t0TjhdtdA
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 19:56 |
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I got engaged at 22 and he won't read my fanfiction
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2020 20:39 |
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# ¿ May 14, 2024 01:22 |
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writing a 600 word essay about how you're not gay is a totally not gay thing to do
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