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Crankit posted:Is it like working up in size of things in the butt?
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# ¿ Mar 30, 2014 14:24 |
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2024 01:00 |
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Kimmalah posted:A lot of women do that because the forward/backward grinding thing is often what feels good for them on top, while the up and down doesn't do a whole lot feeling-wise. So sometimes you've got to do a little of both for everyone to have a good time. Well, the other thing that works is up-and-down, but using fingers on her clit at the same time, or even just a thumb.
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# ¿ Mar 31, 2014 07:52 |
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Violet_Sky posted:I can't seem to relax when I masturbate. I try to do when I'm lying down, but then my brain says "Okay, we've got to climax so that we can feel normal to other people. Our vagina isn't broke-ah,crap arousals gone again." I'm female, by the way. From your description, your vagina is in fact working perfectly normally. Relax. Relax relax relax relax relax. Don't worry about climaxing. don't put any pressure on yourself to come. Just do what feels good, without thinking that you have to make yourself come. If you're not worrying about it, the chances of it happening improve.
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# ¿ Apr 13, 2014 12:46 |
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MNSNTZR posted:My boyfriend has recently expressed to me that he wants to be on the receiving end of some anal play. I have had some experience with this before with previous partners, but the effort was clumsy and not really pleasurable for anyone. So I do have some questions about the logistics of it, but they're a little secondary. If you're a dude who's into dudes, then you're gay. That's about it. But everyone - queer, straight, male, female, cis or trans - has nerve endings in their butthole which feel good when they're played with. And yes, telling him to give it a go himself is the way to do it. Also: tell him if he's going to stick anything up there other than his fingers to only use something designed specifically for the purpose. Particularly a toy with a flared base. Otherwise you risk losing the object in your arsehole and needing to go to the hospital to get it removed, which is something that happens literally all the time. Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 04:21 on May 5, 2014 |
# ¿ May 5, 2014 04:15 |
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Well, not that there's anything wrong with being gay or bi anyway, nor does being gay preclude a guy from being a big beefy sweaty manly dominant type. Just sayin.
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# ¿ May 5, 2014 05:50 |
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hoobajoo posted:Absolutely, but when a guy says "Does butt stuff make me gay", my response isn't going to be "You can be gay, that's fine!"
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# ¿ May 5, 2014 08:23 |
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WreckSov posted:I feel this video has a special relevance to our dear sexthread Wow. Did she start sucking on the microphone or something?
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# ¿ May 13, 2014 23:54 |
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Octy posted:So I've been casually seeing someone for the last couple of weeks. First time I've ever come this far with a girl. Our third date was at hers last night. Thing is, I had a lot of trouble keeping it up, which I'm sure wasn't helped by the three beers I'd had, but even so, I'd had three beers on our second date and I couldn't keep it down then, although we only made out. She was cool about it as she has her own sexual issues and we were both nervous, so in the end I focused on pleasuring her which is good experience as far as I'm concerned. But even in the morning I still had trouble. I don't think I was nervous about being naked. In fact, I felt I became quite comfortable with it, as well as touching her and being touched, much to my surprise. What we did was a lot of fun, really (and that ought to be the most important thing after all). But as much as she says she finds my awkwardness and nervousness 'endearing', I don't think it'd be a good look if I had trouble next time. I admit I've become a little too reliant on porn to get me off, and even though it's not something I look at every time, cutting it out seems fairly obvious. Are there any other remedies on how to manage this problem? Relax. Chillax. Chill the gently caress out. Take the pressure off, it's not going to help you perform. This lady has said she's cool with you being nervous, so she's clearly patient and Not An Arsehole. Take it slow. Don't worry about whether you're going to be able to perform or not. Just think about having fun sexy times. If you're hard at the time, you're hard. If you're not, you're not, and you can just use fingers/tongue/whatever else. Really, there's nothing else you can do, and nothing kills boners (and ladyboners, for that matter) like stressing out about it. Allow yourself the possibility that you might not be able to perform, let it go, and chances are you'll be fine.
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# ¿ May 18, 2014 02:47 |
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Well, it's a bit different for dudes, because of the prostate, which does feel nice when stimulated.
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# ¿ May 20, 2014 08:01 |
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Wizard Master posted:HI I 33 yrs old. i have geeting problem about sexually. i am very very week in sex. even sometimes my penis cannot stand. what is the sulotion may i know please. This is the price man must pay for wizard mastery.
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# ¿ Jun 6, 2014 14:46 |
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Would a jelly dildo work with a condom on, from the point of view of not needing to wash it afterwards?
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# ¿ Jun 11, 2014 12:52 |
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loki k zen posted:Suspicious Lump: I'd go so far as to say: for god's sake, do not use anything that was not designed for the purpose. If you use something without a flared base, you run the risk of it getting lost up there (see loki's link, it happens alarmingly often), but if you use something not built for purpose you risk it breaking. There are gifs out there of people shoving glass stuff up their butts and it shattering. If it's anything that can crack or splinter, don't put it anywhere near your tuchus. Err on the side of caution.
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# ¿ Jul 16, 2014 12:45 |
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Grand Prize Winner posted:Me and my partner are both really into giving oral. She likes receiving from me, but I really don't enjoy it when she blows me. She tends to use more teeth than strictly necessary and the choking noise grosses me out more than turns me on. Open and honest communication is key here, but I'm really bad at positive criticism. How do I suggest that she blow me better without sounding like an unappreciative rear end in a top hat? What's wrong with "ow. Please watch the teeth"? e: dovetaile posted:Hello sex thread! quote:MY VAGINA IS PART OF ME Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 01:15 on Jul 29, 2014 |
# ¿ Jul 28, 2014 22:10 |
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AlbieQuirky posted:The trans dudes I know well enough to talk about this stuff with are all about the clitcock/cockclit/whatever their pet name for it is. But that's them, so take that for what it's worth. This is more or less what I was getting at. Most cis vagina-havers can't come without clitoral stimulation, even during vaginal penetration. I haven't seen stats on anal penetration, though I can't imagine the numbers would be much higher.
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# ¿ Jul 29, 2014 18:10 |
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Well, it looks like the prop was custom made for the show. Maybe find yourself a custom dildosmith? Or, failing that, email a few manufacturers directly and see if they have any ideas?
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# ¿ Aug 8, 2014 09:10 |
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Gravitas Shortfall posted:Sex Questions Megathread III: Find yourself a custom dildosmith On that note, I wonder if Dick Smith could help. (probably not).
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# ¿ Aug 8, 2014 13:29 |
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Flared base, flared base, flared base, flared base, flared base, flared base, flared base. For god's sake. Should be top of the list.
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# ¿ Aug 20, 2014 00:13 |
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hoobajoo posted:Oh, to touch on butt stuff, a lot of people here recommend trying it because it is very pleasurable if done safely, and a lot of people haven't tried it. It can stimulate the prostate in men as well, which is a very different kind of feeling, and can help with issues like anorgasmia or just intensifies cumming. But it's a more advanced sex activity, and extra good communication and a lot of warm up and lube is required. I wouldn't recommend trying it until both of you are more comfortable with your sex life, unless she specifically requests it. Yep. The solution to "how can I get my shy girlfriend to enjoy sex more" isn't "stick it in her arse".
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2014 23:33 |
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The Door Frame posted:I had a buddy who did that with his girlfriend. Only he was 400 lbs and she was 320 lbs so penetrative sex wasn't really going to work for them without a ton of effort On that note, the funniest thing I ever heard about sex, from a backpacker I met overseas: quote:Each crease is like a different woman. loving a fat girl is the next best thing to a threesome Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 23:42 on Sep 5, 2014 |
# ¿ Sep 5, 2014 04:00 |
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FROOOOOOOOG posted:Girth is my problem too - my other partner is longer but thinner and it's great. If you're in Australia, maybe try Wet Stuff? http://www.usreviewingthings.com/reviews/lubes/201-wet-stuff
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# ¿ Sep 5, 2014 07:00 |
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John Lee posted:Alright, I had trouble deciding whether this should go in this thread or E/N, but I decided to go with here, since it's an entirely sexual problem: Most women can't come without clitoral stimulation. That's just how it is. What you can do, however, is use your own fingers on her during PIV sex, if you really want to be the one to cause the orgasms. Girl-on-top works well for this.
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# ¿ Sep 28, 2014 05:49 |
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Turtlicious posted:There is never a point where I'm going to forget the word that will stp someone from sounding me. Sure, because you're obviously not into BDSM or shoving things into your dickhole. But you get the point in a safe word not being "holy gently caress, don't do that", right? Some people get off on things like rape fantasy, and it's a way to manage that safely. Something like "no means yes, but red means no stop pretend-rape over". Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 09:02 on Oct 27, 2014 |
# ¿ Oct 27, 2014 07:24 |
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AltruisticNemesis posted:Him- 29yo male, daddy issues, mental issues (depression, mild narcissism, anxiety), abandonment issues. Raised in a smothering, very tea party, fundamentalist Christian household. He is in a well paying, cushy job- though the subject matter he has to review is NWS/NMS in order to prevent that material from getting to the masses on the internet, with him unable at times to "shrug it off". He was handpicked to be a supervisor by his superiors for this job, though supervising is new to him and he is having problems. He is in therapy now, after me suggesting multiple times, and goes every 1-2 weeks. He is having major family problems regarding money, a store his father owns and embezzlement by his sister of his entire trust fund ($100k.) All I'm getting from this is that he has a very high sex drive (which is not a problem, and I don't see why you should regard as a problem to be cured) and that he can't be trusted to respect boundaries you set (which IS a problem). I don't think the two are linked, and I don't think there's fundamentally anything wrong with needing to jack it 3+ times a day either (it's weird, sure, but that's about it). "let himself be tricked into breaking the rules" smells like a bullshit excuse, too. Putting that aside: does his therapist think he has a sex addiction? Has anyone qualified actually diagnosed him with that? That's the important bit. In which case, follow/ask for their advice. If not, don't try to fix him. However, if he keeps transgressing relationship boundaries you set, I would regard that as the most major issue. You'd need to then either be ok with him sleeping around, or not be ok with it and dump him. I don't see any other way around that.
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# ¿ Oct 29, 2014 04:33 |
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There we go, then. Fishmanpet, just tell her her vagina is "sick nasty".
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# ¿ Nov 5, 2014 21:50 |
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Don't get your sex-ed from stand-up routines... There's nothing wrong with fingers being used for clitoral stimulation during PiV. You can also use your fingers to directly stimulate her g-spot, which is not as easy to do with your dick. As far as I know, it can be tricky for women to reach their g-spot themselves, and the sensation is quite different, so it's not quite the same thing as a hand job for guys. Or, simply put: put a condom on, stick your dick in her, play with her clit.
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# ¿ Nov 9, 2014 02:16 |
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GuyDudeBroMan posted:
Or that's just how he's wired. Zero, I'd get him to see a doc. There's always the chance that your libidos are just mismatched, though.
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# ¿ Nov 10, 2014 10:44 |
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beefart posted:My girlfriend wants to try anal when she comes to visit in a couple days, but wants to start with toys first before moving on to my dong. Neither of us has been into the butt forest before and I have no idea what toys would feel best for her. Any suggestions? Get her to start with her fingers by herself to get started, to get a feel for things. For toys, get something specifically designed for anal. IE something with a flared base or a "hilt" or similar. Do not get a regular dildo, or improvise with anything else, or it will eventually get lost up there and you'll have to go to the hospital to get it out (the literally happens all the time).
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2015 21:53 |
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The Born Approx. posted:Well. A girl who I started dating recently and am really into dropped the H bomb on me. She was super upfront about everything and made sure to tell me before anything happened, so I trust her when she tells me that she's on medication for it, etc. The H bomb being "herpes" or "HIV"? I'm guessing HIV?
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# ¿ Jan 10, 2015 23:43 |
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If it's herpes, I really wouldn't be that worried. There was a great documentary on herpes on a few months ago that goes into living with herpes. Apparently the worst part about it is the stigma. The actual disease itself is really not much of a big deal. Worth watching. http://www.abc.net.au/tv/openingshot/episode/1/ e: crap, that's the behind the scenes vids. I can't find the actual thing. It's called "Dating the H-Bomb". Was quite lighthearted. Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 05:09 on Jan 11, 2015 |
# ¿ Jan 11, 2015 05:04 |
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gently caress da Mods posted:does anyone have any experience with scat play? How do we keep it all sanitary Microwave your poo poo first, to kill the bacteria.
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# ¿ Mar 31, 2015 06:13 |
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89 posted:I'm dating a girl right now and she's on birth control. She never misses a pill and is very adamant about staying on top of it. She says she's more worried about getting pregnant than I am. I always use the pull out method (I've tried different kind of condoms countless times and can't maintain an erection with them). She says that it would be fine to ejaculate in her and she's not worried about it. I've talked to a couple of friends and from their experiences they also back that statement up. That as long as the girl doesn't miss a pill, cream pie away. Here are the raw numbers: https://www.optionsforsexualhealth.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control-options/effectiveness If she doesn't miss a pill, it's 99.7% effective. With typical use, it's 92% effective. That's pretty drat good. Pulling out, on the other hand, is 96% effective if you never once screw up, but typically it's more like 73% because mistakes happen. In other words: yes, you can trust the pill. It's about as effective as it gets, short of IUDs or sterilization, and it's not even trailing those by any practical difference. Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 06:43 on Aug 6, 2015 |
# ¿ Aug 6, 2015 02:18 |
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89 posted:Yeah, she always goes to the bathroom after. Hydrolith posted:If she doesn't miss a piss
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# ¿ Aug 6, 2015 06:42 |
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black.lion posted:Oh I'm familiar with the magic wand ofc, was hoping for something that didn't require an outlet - buuuuut if that's just absolutely THE most pleasing appliance to the female anatomy... There's also this thing: http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/doxy/ . Still needs to be plugged in, though. edit: oh jesus gently caress. Don't read their latest comic unless you have a furry piss fetish. Hydrolith fucked around with this message at 09:25 on Aug 18, 2015 |
# ¿ Aug 18, 2015 03:57 |
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bobula posted:Just checking... guys can't be tested for HPV, correct? So if a dude gets it from say, eating an infected pussy, he can then pass it around (via kissing and also more oral sex) and not even know about it. Y/N? http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv-and-men.htm
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# ¿ Aug 26, 2015 05:30 |
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KillHour posted:The bell curve for penises is surprisingly steep.
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# ¿ Sep 3, 2015 04:57 |
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The clit's the important part, and you don't even need a dick to get to it never mind a big one.
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# ¿ Sep 4, 2015 02:02 |
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LingcodKilla posted:That's better than jizz on your guest beds pillow. Because they're off-yellow now?
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# ¿ Sep 5, 2015 06:50 |
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2024 01:00 |
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Any advice for getting the smell of pussy off of my face? A good scrub in the shower didn't do it.
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