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How do I [24/F] go about bringing up timelines with my boyfriend [28/M]?quote:Hey everyone! Sorry if my title is kind of vague, let me explain. I’ve been with my boyfriend “Tim” for almost a year now, and I have never been happier. He is everything I have ever dreamed about having in a significant other: intelligent, driven, smart, successful, caring, funny, adventurous, and EXTREMELY handsome. We complement each other really well, and I 100% see him as the man I could/want to spend my life with. We’ve joked around about marriage and moving in together, but never in an overly serious or planning-type way. Just little quips here and there. The thing is, I seriously want to begin taking the steps to start our life together. Call me crazy, but I’ve been sure about this for months! and an update like woah. [Update] I [24/F] found panties, and he [28/M] denied knowing anything about them, then proceeded to confess that he wasn’t sure about us. Help. quote:I just got back from a short trip abroad, and decided now would be a perfect time to ask where he was at with us. I had already decided not to move in with him, as he wasn’t showing he was all that interested in it happening, and I know that’s not a decision you take lightly. So I went over his house, things were going well, and he left to pick up dinner for us.
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Why are you dating someone you refuse to spend a few bucks on? Why date such a goddamn cheapskate? Sometimes I think people latched onto the idea of having a partner without realizing that a relationship is supposed to be an improvement to being single.
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Mar 28, 2019 04:41
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kimbo305 posted:https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-strangest-way-you-found-out-your-significant-other-was-cheating-on-you/answer/Brian-Carney-2 Also, lol at how pathetic this dude is. The wife should just upgrade to loving other men in their bedroom while he watches, since he sure as poo poo won’t do anything about it.
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Mar 28, 2019 04:49
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for "I should have just divorced"
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Karma is a bitch!
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Mar 28, 2019 16:49
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You might be at high risk of dying from cancer but what about meeeeeeee?
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Mar 28, 2019 20:43
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I’m of the opinion that if the kid can ask for milk, it’s time to cut them off.
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Mar 28, 2019 22:29
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Play posted:Reading this I went from fully alert to feeling like I have no energy whatsoever, I never will again and I should probably kill myself My eyes started to glaze over as I was reading and then I scrolled away. Some stories just aren't worth the mental effort.
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Mar 29, 2019 01:29
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That teen mom is just trying to get her grift on and the parents are getting in the way.
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Mar 29, 2019 04:41
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I don’t have a lot of sympathy for garbage men and I don’t want to give this one the benefit of the doubt.
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Mar 29, 2019 17:03
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Too bad the wife can't talk about this with her comedian husband.
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Mar 29, 2019 18:32
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DemoneeHo posted:It's clogged toilet week on reddit Despite the entire family rallying behind the Cloggers, not a single one of them offered to put them up so they're forced to stay at a hotel. Kinda telling.
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Mar 29, 2019 19:19
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Liquid Communism posted:Hoooboy. You've never seen the number of straight kinksters who wedge themselves into LGBTQ spaces and insist they're a sexual minority, have you? I'll have you know that as a demisexual, a person who is only sexually interested in someone I have an emotional connection to, that I absolutely need a safe space. Because I am certainly a rare and unique individual and not at all like the average and ordinary folk.
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Mar 30, 2019 06:02
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Tell that woman that her gigantic tits are making her a crybaby and a weakass softie. Then stand up straight and exclaim how great the lack of back pain is.
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Mar 30, 2019 20:39
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I wonder if the transphobic transperson would change her tune once all those lovely prejudices applied to her, or if she’s so damaged that she’d believe it was perfectly acceptable and deserved.
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Mar 31, 2019 02:24
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My boss [50s m] sent me [22f] a very creepy text, I responded angrier than I should have. Men. Are. Garbage. *Farmers Insurance jingle*
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Mar 31, 2019 06:12
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Switchback posted:American identity politics are pretty hosed if nobody is allowed to have any nuanced or differing opinions from the mass. On the right, if you agree with one single issue you’re welcomed with open arms. On the left, if you don’t agree with ALL of our platform, we eat you until you die you loving Monster. So you believe people should be able to pick and choose which basic human rights others have access to? And that somehow makes you not a monster?
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Mar 31, 2019 15:10
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:What is the gently caress is wrong with people? How hard is it for this assclown to say "I had a great time and you're very sweet, but I just wasn't feeling it" etc? gently caress. I’m just being honest, man. I gotta be true to myself.
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Apr 1, 2019 01:20
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I love that the Olive Garden man was so far up his own rear end that he didn't even realize his amazing girlfriend never liked the restaurant in the first place.
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Apr 1, 2019 15:16
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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:Why do AITA posters think they need to give people complete and honest details when rejecting them for a job application or a second date? Well, a job application is supposed to be strictly professional. And this woman's lifestyle choice specifically barred her from the job she otherwise would have gotten. You just can't work with food and refuse to taste the majority of what you're producing, and she should at least be made aware of that fact.
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Apr 1, 2019 19:37
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PostNouveau posted:The reason a lot of companies just ghost people rather than be straight-up about why they weren't hired is what happened in this case. Yeah. It sounds like the manager wanted to do the right thing with the follow-up and got burned for being considerate.
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Apr 1, 2019 19:44
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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:Liking boobs is literally the thing that makes you not gay There are plenty of men walking around with tits that are at least Cs. You might want to rethink your criteria.
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Apr 1, 2019 19:47
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My brain automatically assumed they were both chicks but I am willing to admit I might be wrong.
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Apr 1, 2019 22:34
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Gf wants to go “on tour” with her escort friend and I don’t want her to. Those women are going to get seriously hurt and then are going to get strung up by the police.
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Apr 2, 2019 16:03
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for not firing my racist employee? That racist's mom is probably also racist as hell. Let 'em starve.
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Apr 2, 2019 18:45
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PostNouveau posted:
My mom did this the day of her wedding without any prior warning. My dad only half jokes about how he almost walked out right then and there. It's pretty notorious among the Chinese community. I don't recall ever seeing an older woman without a pixie cut in Chinatown.
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Apr 2, 2019 18:48
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I've seen this a couple of times. Not after babies, but once right after the engagement. The couple comes over for a party and surprise, she hacked all her hair off, and the guy's just really struggling to pretend to like it, even though pretending to like it means it might be here to stay.
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I feel like there should be an extra financial penalty for being that much of a dirtbag.
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Apr 2, 2019 19:54
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He barely even talks about the kid. His post is mostly focused on forking over money to his ex and how that sucks since he's a broke rear end college student. As if child support is more about debt owed to a jilted lover rather than supporting the child itself.
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Apr 2, 2019 20:10
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Straight White Shark posted:(28m) i have been in a relationship with two girls (26f) and (25f) for about six years now, and now they both want to marry, they are saying they are find with a polygamous marriage but i think it is morally wrong for me and for them Is this even legally possible?
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Apr 3, 2019 01:22
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BOOTY-ADE posted:Someone's never been to Utah I'm very grateful for this fact.
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Apr 3, 2019 02:18
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If she had intended to pay for the extra stuff herself, she would have indicated so during the addition to the order.
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Apr 3, 2019 16:05
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Shaving an underarm is so basic that a blind woman should be able to do it no sweat. Crotch is another matter though, and she shouldn't try to guilt her boyfriend to do routine grooming for her. Some people love doing stuff like that for their partners and other people don't.
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Apr 3, 2019 16:25
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Pinecone Sample posted:Adults are entitled to whatever beauty standards make them feel happy and dignified in their own body. (Yes, within limits, if she wears a tank top and works in food prep, she should wear underarm hair nets). Even if they can't see it, even if he finds something problematic in the history of women's razors, I don't care. This woman is blind, not helpless. She'll probably miss a few hairs downstairs if she shaves herself, but it's not by any means impossible. Why do goons hate self-sufficiency so much?
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Apr 3, 2019 16:54
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Anne Whateley posted:Shaving isn't hygienic, it's just a grooming preference. It's actually worse for health and that's before you get into the possibility of lopping off your labia. That's pretty strange foreplay to me.
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Apr 3, 2019 17:15
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So without a partner, this poor blind woman will either turn into a jungle or be perpetually broke. And it won't be her fault at all.
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Apr 3, 2019 17:26
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:Yes, disabled people have difficulty doing a lot of things that able-bodied people take for granted. Not really sure where fault comes into it. Because shaving is more tactile than it is sight reliant. And because there are plenty of people who wear glasses who can't see in the shower and yet manage to do the necessaries without any problem. This woman is using blindness as a crutch and it shouldn't be encouraged.
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Apr 3, 2019 17:39
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OMGVBFLOL posted:lol shut the gently caress up i wear coke bottle glasses and i guarantee you my sight is still useful for shaving my balls Well she's a woman so her genitals presumably don't have awkward dangly bits to maneuver around. If she doesn't want to shave because she's uncomfortable doing so, that's fine. But she shouldn't make it her boyfriend's problem.
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Apr 3, 2019 17:58
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:Also, I'm confused about this first sentence. Like, what. Do you think women are all barbie dolls down there? No maneuvering, that's a good one. I just think women have a much more straightforward time of cleaning up their genitals than men do. I don't know the joys of shaving around a man's junk, but it seems a whole lot more complicated.
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Apr 3, 2019 18:18
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Well I could flat out state that I'm a woman who can't see jack poo poo in the shower, but that would ruin the illusion wouldn't it? My [21m] chronically ill, seemingly socially isolated cousin [20f] asked me to kiss her. I kinda feel bad for her and wish I could help her in any way. What can I do? quote:First off, I dont want to come off like feeling pity for her, just that she was handed a terrible hand in life and I feel compassion for her suffering.
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Apr 3, 2019 18:34
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He was 37 with an 18 year old. I hope his secret woman destroys everything he holds dear.
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I feel really bad for those "second family" kids. They have to have figured out by now that dad has a whole other family he prioritizes over them. Maybe everyone will cut him out of their lives and he will end up alone.
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