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Defiance Industries posted:If my mom threw a party for something important to her, I'd probably come. It's just that the idea of someone throwing a party for their anniversary and inviting someone who is not their spouse is so utterly foreign to me as a concept. Anniversaries are something just for the two of you, it's like asking your brother if he wants to come to a party for the first time you and you wife banged. I went to my grandparent’s 50th. I can’t imagine going to another unless it was their 75th and they didn’t make it.
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# ¿ Aug 23, 2018 08:20 |
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# ¿ May 14, 2024 16:37 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:
Closeted straight guy hoping his boyfriend is into water sports?
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# ¿ Aug 23, 2018 08:21 |
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quote:My (22/F) roommate (22/F) is a sociopath drug dealer and I'm not sure how to escape. I might be stabbed to death or assaulted or arrested for possession. I would move out but I am worried it might negatively impact my credit score. Wut do?
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# ¿ Aug 23, 2018 19:05 |
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I want to believe this relationship started due to him carrying a printer over to her place.quote:Girlfriend[20/F] started a huge fight because I didn't ask why she didn't reply to my[24/M] text. I ended up getting dumped because of it. Really confused.... Problem solved, right? Let us see what the poster has been posting since. Here are the threads he started from most recent back to original post: When they split you black. (Split Black is the time when a BPD views everything negatively) Do you think a pwBPD would care about their ex or current partner if they died when they are split black? Haha great video by this guy. He is spot on. (Video about abused men) So accurate picture of how a BPD relationship evolves. I couldn't stop crying today... Went NC 3 weeks ago feeling depressed and need clarity. BPD ex became a new person after break up. New identity and values. Anybody been through something similar? My list of how to spot a woman diagnosed with BPD during the honey moon phase. My list of how to spot borderline women during the honey moon phase. What do borderlines look for in a partner? Do they just pick anyone to fill their emptiness or do they look for some qualities ? How do borderlines chose their partner? Do they just take anyone to fill their emptiness? How does a BPD feel when they dump you and you go no contact and you don’t chase her ? How does a BPD feel when they break up and you don’t chase and go no contact ? Crazy ex girlfriend[20/F] contacts me[24/M] today and texts me that she felt weak during our relationship because I was not a man enough to propose to her after 2 months. But it is 168 days since last post so maybe he is better now?
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# ¿ Aug 23, 2018 20:02 |
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Pick posted:I have a boyfriend?! He is outside with a printer right now.
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# ¿ Aug 23, 2018 20:36 |
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One would think eating less would free up time but here we are.
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# ¿ Aug 23, 2018 21:50 |
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Milotic posted:Wow, this woman is even saltier than I am during a game of 40K It is amazing to me that the people who are the biggest failures in life always think they are full of sage advice for everyone that should be heeded at all times.
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# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 15:50 |
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quote:My [24F] future mother in law [50F] wants to postpone mine and my fiance's wedding by up to 12 years because his father is going to prison. Thought we could use a happy ending. Xenocides fucked around with this message at 16:19 on Aug 24, 2018 |
# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 16:15 |
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We need content stat before we drown in a vegetable bloodbath. We need a new bad person to unite us before vegetarianism divides us. Found a post about a girl who found out her guy was watching abuse porn and liked rough sex but he was very careful but she was a little weirded out. The comments talked her down about the difference between fantasy and reality. One commenter by the name Stupidshitasalways decided to share this for some reason: quote:I am 30/F and I really enjoy severe torture and abuse. Not porn (I don't like porn but do watch hentai that involves abuse/torture/rape) but reading about true stories of it and watching documentaries on it. It turns me on because I just like the idea of having power over someone like that and them being scared of me. I like the idea in the movie "Hostel" of buying someone and brutally torturing and killing them. I've been turned on by this since I was a teen. I would get aroused watching documentaries detailing what sadistic serial killers did to their victims. I think it's just the whole having control and power over someone and knowing they fear you is what turns me on about it. Not much else does it for me. Xenocides fucked around with this message at 20:38 on Aug 24, 2018 |
# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 20:35 |
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Ligament posted:I heard stories of one friend of mine: when she was a kid she wouldn't eat her vegetables. eventually her parents gave her the ultimatum "You are sitting here at the table until bed unless you finish your plate and eat your vegetables" and she'd sit there until bed. every time. the parents gave up bc gently caress that. some kids just have this totally insane determination that I wish I had a fraction of today. One time when I was on a family vacation as a kid my mom told me I could not leave the table until I ate my zucchini. She got frustrated and left me there. My grandmother came over and told me an amazingly funny story about me sitting there all night and all kinds of crazy things happening while I sat there that ended with me eating the zucchini for breakfast. Then she told me I could have ice cream with my cousins if I ate the zucchini. I ate the zucchini.
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# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 20:45 |
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Pick posted:jim kirk would hate yoda. like a guy who has tons of friends he has shown over and over again that he would gladly sacrifice himself for would not tolerate yoda’s hideous and toxicly masculine doctrine of self-interest and preservation of the status quo at all costs. Jim, ( and Spock too) explicitly talk about the value of “this simple feeling”: love, in the political sphere, and as a foundation of morality and worldview. Jim basically does in the search for spock what Luke does in Empire: go on a life-threatening fool’s errand to rescue a friend. a correct course of action explicitly disapproved of by Yoda. Jim Kirk is shown throughout TOS reforming episode villans and teaching them compassion, again, something that Yoda literally told Luke not to do. Jim Kirk and Luke Skywalker have the same ethics and worldview : that loyalty to one’s friends is important, that love and compassion are forces for good, and that apathy and indifference are never good solutions to problems ( Jim Kirk literally had a movie in which his story arc was about learning not to be indifferent to the misfortunes of others!) Yoda worldview is the exact opposite : loyalty is irrelevant, love and compassion are evil, and indifference and apathy are the solution to every problem and the foundation of wisdom. this is a point of view that Luke is shown to reject on screen multiple times and is the culmination of his character arc in the three original movies. Have they considered opening their relationships?
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# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 21:09 |
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luxury handset posted:this is exactly how a bunch of upper middle class wasps would deal with the implosion of a upcoming wedding after it is mostly settled I misread this at first and pictured a bunch of well to do wasps hanging out around their nest working out relationship problems.
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# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 21:47 |
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Pick posted:wasps never have these problems. I would watch a show about wasp courtship issues. Admiral Ray posted:Ducks do, though. And the forbidden love one of them has for a duck. She has a beak, he has a stinger, can love bridge the divide? No Xenocides fucked around with this message at 21:59 on Aug 24, 2018 |
# ¿ Aug 24, 2018 21:54 |
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Usually we go until morning? Do they have sex maybe twice a year or only save it for the weekends?
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# ¿ Aug 25, 2018 00:34 |
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dudeness posted:Only 39% of Americans have enough savings to cover a $1500 (wedding) emergency. 1% of that subgroup would attend a wedding like this.
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# ¿ Aug 26, 2018 01:22 |
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YeahTubaMike posted:in my 31 years of life, my choices appear to be "have standards & never ever get laid again" or "don't have standards". thank loving christ i don't want any kids Yeah often it seems the choice is to either die alone and unloved or live with someone you hate and die unloved but not alone.
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# ¿ Aug 26, 2018 03:21 |
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SniperWoreConverse posted:Nylon rope, or at least the cheap kind, does not make a good sex rope I just wanted to point this out. Stay safe and don't get hurt True, if you make it at all tight it quickly cuts off circulation and is irritable. Use the softer ropes to kidnap people. Namaste.
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2018 00:43 |
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Your normal garden variety wedding drama over the dress code:quote:Me [35/f], fiance [36/m] and his desire for a "wacky wedding". We argue over the wedding itself, yet are compatible over everything else. How to resolve?
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2018 05:07 |
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Blade Runner posted:You're being willfully obtuse or have never had an actual relationship if you don't think that one partner being the one who always initiates sex and the other partner being so uninterested in sex in general that they legitimately think they might be asexual is not an issue This. Part of most healthy relationships is being sexually desired by your partner not having that is frustrating and damaging.
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2018 15:19 |
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Pick posted:*nods* That’s why I’m asexual, Burger King To quote my youngest sister when we pulled into a Burger King parking lot: “Burger King!? What are we? Animals?!”
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2018 17:04 |
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chitoryu12 posted:Both of them have very boring sex music taste. Agreed. Weird Al Yankovic or GTFO!
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2018 17:29 |
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Another asexual story.quote:My (19F) boyfriend (20M) threatened to break up when I asked him to stop making sexual remarks. Let us compromise and meet in the middle so we can both be unhappy.
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# ¿ Aug 27, 2018 17:43 |
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Ahhhh....young idiots.quote:[22/f] my boyfriend asked an amateur porn poster for nudes but he thought I’d be okay with it And my favorite comment: quote:So eager
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# ¿ Aug 28, 2018 18:36 |
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Hi main concern in the middle of a divorce precipitated by his wife trying to cheat on him is his personal reputation? Kudos for coolness in the midst of adversity I guess.
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# ¿ Aug 28, 2018 20:41 |
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Rubellavator posted:Woman who sits in the next row over at work who doesn't seem like the twitter/reddit type is talking about the $1500 wedding gift lady. It's going viral! I saw it on a grognard forum full of olds. They are all humble bragging about how little they spent on their weddings.
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# ¿ Aug 28, 2018 20:43 |
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Subjunctive posted:Yeah, I saw it in BFC too.
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# ¿ Aug 28, 2018 21:07 |
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Haifisch posted:On a lighter note: I used to think the old Homestarrunner cartoon where Strong Bad forms a new nation to escape those mocking him for putting ketchup on eggs was hyperbole. Guess not.
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 01:18 |
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dudeness posted:This is just God testing your devotion to becoming a nun. Many are the nuns who were seduced from the path by a guy friend humping a body pillow with their picture taped to it.
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 06:44 |
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Have some palette cleansing hate: My MIL (f/50s) tried to give away by spare bed - a family war has broken out! *EDIT: My MIL is 50 female and I am a 26 female. We've known each other since I've been 19. quote:I've posted this in /justnomil, but someone suggested I post here as I need some advice.
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 07:15 |
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gently caress Your Website posted:They both are Don’t jump to conclusions. It is possible it applies to the entire family.
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 17:21 |
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Me [30F] with my mom [62F] buying me gifts that I can't use, don't need, and don't want...quote:I probably sound super ungrateful, but I'm at the point in my life where the holidays aren't about presents. I feel like the most important thing is to get together with your family for the day, have a nice meal, and MAYBE exchange one or two thoughtful gifts if that's your tradition. However, every year for birthdays and Christmas my mom continues to buy me and my siblings hundreds of dollars worth of things we can't use or don't want. Okay, that nicely buried the worst offense.
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 17:45 |
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This one is kind of sad considering the ages: I (f/24) told my friend (m/28) I like him. He said he likes me too. Now what do I do? Does my plan sound ok? quote:I told him 10 days ago. We hang out at the local pub along every weekend with our separate groups of friends. We usually end up ditching our friends and hanging out just the two of us. After the pub, we grab food and sometimes head back to his apartment and listen to music and chat. But I found it mostly
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 20:16 |
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If they are willing to take on the long-term commitment, great. If not, they should offer to basically foster while putting her up for adoption. What annoys me (I volunteer in this field a bit) are people who keep the kids around until they are old enough and messed up enough that they will probably never be adopted and then dump them in the system.
Xenocides fucked around with this message at 20:56 on Aug 29, 2018 |
# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 20:52 |
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Leon Einstein posted:This woman is dying to let everybody know that she's a persecuted poly. Please pay attention to me. I am poly! I am interesting! The last thing they want is normalization. That would leave their only talking point dead: “Yeah, we have all been spitroasted by our boyfriends while our husband was in the other room crying because he still had not found a woman looking for a guy in an open marriage. Boring!”
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# ¿ Aug 29, 2018 21:29 |
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Me [32F] with my husband [33F] Husband accused of having profile on dating site, says profile is a fake, how do we handle this?quote:I'm 32, husband's 33, been married for 2 years now, met when I was 26 and he was 27, were a couple for 2 years, engaged for nearly 2 years and married in December 2012, our anniversary's coming up in a fortnight. No honey, an evil Chinese man who I cannot be sure I will ever see again took pictures of me in water polo gear and photoshopped them. I wasn’t trying to (badly) seduce your friend with underwear pics. They were water polo pics. I got hackedby the Chinese! Like crooked Hillary!
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2018 16:11 |
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Pick posted:As an aside, I was talking with a friend who writes fanfiction, and apparently there's an entire subgenre dedicated to characters getting married and then aging such that the husband isn't quite so demanding and entitled about the wife's sexual availability and that just struck me as the saddest thing I'd ever heard So their sexual fantasy is about not having sex with the object of their sexual fantasy?
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2018 18:20 |
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Pick posted:Nope, actually it's fascinating because I think your reply is indicative of a lot of what guys don't understand about women generally and ironically why these stories get written . Okay, that is kind of cute but also kind of sad.
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2018 18:48 |
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Play posted:Whoa I am absolutely shocked. What the hell Yeah......I am thinking it is fictional now. Some kind of cheating rear end in a top hat trying to get back at his ex by creating an excuse as ridiculous as his were but this time it is real so she should have been believed him.
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2018 18:55 |
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Pick posted:What's double amazing is a lot of guys here, in this thread, are going to laugh at this practice or be appalled by it and are never going to take the 6 seconds to stop and think "Do I take an interest in my wife's fiber art?" And of those who do, 80% are going to comfortably tell themselves that it's fine, their wife is a cool wife, she doesn't care if he pays attention to anything she cares about! Now I am glad I am single because I do not have to ask myself that.
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2018 18:58 |
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loquacius posted:oh sorry I am assuming you are poly diaper fetishists based on that joke.
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2018 18:59 |