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Leon Einstein posted:The cousin was way out of line, but the line about her "ruined vagina" irks me and is very misogynistic. And that line from the cousin about how her life will ultimately be worthless and that she will end up bitter and alone because she chose career over a ~baby~ wasn't?
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# ¿ Jan 23, 2019 16:29 |
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2024 21:30 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Where did I say that? Jesus, not every situation is one good guy and one bad guy. They both said stupid poo poo. Well I don't think they're both assholes either. The OP was subjected to several hours of harassment over her lack of baby despite everyone knowing she is physically incapable of having one. And when the cousin ramped it up to some seriously offensive poo poo, the woman snapped.
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# ¿ Jan 23, 2019 16:47 |
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Stop calling fake on stories. Buncha wet blankets and fun killers in this thread. Edit: rape isn’t a joke. Dazerbeams fucked around with this message at 14:31 on Feb 15, 2019 |
# ¿ Feb 15, 2019 14:29 |
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I knew someone was going to comment. Seriously though, everything posted in this thread has the potential to be made up bullshit so if you call out one you might as well call them all out. Pete is as real or fake as every other story.
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# ¿ Feb 15, 2019 14:34 |
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How dare a woman have opinions about a piece of jewelry that she’ll be expected and hoping to wear for the rest of her married life. Whose sentimentality is entirely one sided. She handled the proposal like a huge rear end in a top hat though. Men are delicate creatures that need to be coddled and lied to because the truth is too painful. Should have tucked the heirloom into the back of a jewelry box and gotten a shiny new placeholder that can withstand everyday wear and tear.
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# ¿ Feb 27, 2019 06:09 |
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If you're going to make the effort to go to a restaurant, at least choose something that isn't bland as gently caress. If you want trash, get fast food. If you want a meal, take the time to find a decent place that isn't a chain.
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# ¿ Mar 6, 2019 21:06 |
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This is extremely late but if you want to use your maiden name professionally, don’t change it when you get married. I’m in research and work alongside doctors and a large number of women keep their maiden name. Having two sounds stupid and a pain in the rear end. Even worse if you’re trying to mix and match. That’s just asking for trouble.
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# ¿ Mar 16, 2019 07:31 |
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If the woman cared so much about her drink, she should have watched it more closely. Seriously though, don’t be lovely to people you want something from. Make them want to help you otherwise they might just say gently caress it.
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2019 15:40 |
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Straight White Shark posted:This is great practical advice but it doesn't change the fact that the dude is 110% an rear end in a top hat. They were at the airport, the assumption should be that everyone is an rear end in a top hat. You start off nasty and you’re never gonna get comped. Is it really so hard to ask for something civilly rather than expect/demand it? Woman would have been free to turn nasty if the guy declined after a polite “excuse me? Do you mind paying for the drink your kid spilled?” But she started off putting the guy on the defensive and in no mood to help.
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2019 16:02 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for refusing to replace a drink that my toddler knocked over because the girl was rude. No rude behavior here. Beep boop, this is how decent people interact with each other. Woman might have been in the right but she was lovely as hell about it and got the response she deserved.
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2019 16:50 |
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Jesus, I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised goons have no clue on how to interact with other people. My mistake.
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2019 17:02 |
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I've never heard of a kitchen dresser before. Where in the world is this a thing?
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2019 01:27 |
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Sometimes it sounds really wonderful to be a kept woman. Minus the dumbass husband who is too stupid to appreciate even more money pouring in.
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2019 14:43 |
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Sometimes, I wish these stories would end with the woman just clocking the guy in the nose. That she is still calling this loser her boyfriend saddens me.
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2019 04:14 |
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Pirate Radar posted:Coincidentally, here’s one from today’s Dear Prudence You posted violence as the opener, not the closer. And while I don’t condone domestic abuse, I appreciate the effort. Racist boyfriend shoulda got punched though.
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2019 13:09 |
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For the record, is anyone accusing the mom of being sexist for wanting girls instead of boys?
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2019 19:52 |
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A clump of cells is not a baby. Also more girls in the world is a good thing, since apparently China and India have skewed it towards men this past generation or so. Dazerbeams fucked around with this message at 21:18 on Mar 20, 2019 |
# ¿ Mar 20, 2019 21:09 |
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value-brand cereal posted:Wont someone think of the men who need wives????????????????? This thread has proven that men don’t deserve wives.
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# ¿ Mar 20, 2019 21:29 |
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I hope one of her chapters is essentially gamemaster anthony's birthday party.
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# ¿ Mar 21, 2019 02:35 |
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Maybe the couch is quality leather that was taken good care of over the generations?
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# ¿ Mar 21, 2019 16:56 |
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That woman should have run screaming as soon as the dad asked "why?"
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# ¿ Mar 21, 2019 19:52 |
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Why bother marrying or living together? Why? Why? Why?
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2019 04:54 |
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I love my wife except that I’ve had to lock her out of the most important part of my life: the cheese sanctum. Is it child abuse to be subjected to the poly lifestyle of your parents? There’s gotta be a study on it somewhere.
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2019 05:12 |
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I wonder if the old fat poly cheese bag couple can maintain lasting relationships with anyone else. Like, do they bring home a steady boyfriend/girlfriend every now and then? Someone who is familiar with their habits and decided it was acceptable? Or do they just bring in a string of randos because who in their right mind would ever come back after seeing locks and mini fridges in the separate bedrooms?
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2019 12:37 |
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Cheese should be served on a platter you heathen.
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2019 14:21 |
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CheesyDog posted:"Sorry for the mess" I said, escorting my newest poly catch into my solo bedroom. "My wife has been in, looks like she's gotten into my shreddies again." Not my shreddies!
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2019 17:14 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:I'm the upscale restaurant that costs less than fifty bucks for a couple. Are you mocking Olive Garden right now?!
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# ¿ Mar 23, 2019 03:29 |
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I really hope that covering them with special sauce isn’t a euphemism and sock man is just a failed experimental chef.
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# ¿ Mar 23, 2019 15:08 |
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I get no emotional or financial support from my boyfriend, how do I call him out about one particular lovely trait without leaving him? edit: Oh poo poo, uh have some content I [26F] am sick and tried of my boyfriend's [28M] refusal to contribute to our household quote:I know this is an age-old problem, but I could use some advice because my tactics haven’t been working. I’ve been living with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. We’re mostly really great together and I’m very happy with him. However, in the time we’ve been cohabitating, it’s become clear that he does not care about being an equal partner when it comes to household maintenance (chores/cooking), and what’s worse, he doesn’t seem to take seriously how much that bothers me. Plus, he’s a bit of a slob and does things like leaving dirty clothes EVERYWHERE, letting food trash sit around, and just generally does not clean up after himself on a daily basis. Relevant info: we are both professionals, but he’s in tech and makes way, way more money than me. Despite that we both work full-time, I sometimes feel like he views his much more substantial financial contribution to our household as a free pass when it comes to chores. I’ve mentioned this, but he says it’s not true. Dazerbeams fucked around with this message at 16:47 on Mar 23, 2019 |
# ¿ Mar 23, 2019 16:43 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Positive for Chlamydia, boyfriend yells whenever I express insecurity, and semen-like wet spots on the bed when I got home last night. Am I being crazy? That poor woman needs to be put down. It’s the only humane cure for abject stupidity.
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# ¿ Mar 24, 2019 01:45 |
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"I look forward to my wedding night where I will be impregnated by the spirit of my dead fiance, so that I can eventually give birth to the reincarnation of my dead fiance." - a totally sane woman
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# ¿ Mar 25, 2019 19:39 |
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Antivehicular posted:Yeah, launching into a huge crying fit about how you've tried for so long and how hard it's been to keep a brave face would be the power move for most MILs, but this one seems monomaniacal enough that she'd blast past "pressure you about IVF" and go straight to "kidnap children from an eastern European orphanage and present them to you with birth certificates pre-filled out with her preferred grandbaby names" Nah, this type of MIL is looking for her own flesh and blood to carry on the FAMILY NAME.
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# ¿ Mar 26, 2019 02:31 |
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Is it normal and healthy for a person to become so engrossed in a hobby that personal relationships lose their luster? Sounds kind of crazy to me.
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# ¿ Mar 26, 2019 03:26 |
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Anime is ruining this thread.
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# ¿ Mar 26, 2019 05:02 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Also like literally a couple hundred million people play video games in America alone, so way to look down upon much of the US population. Have you seen who our president is?
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# ¿ Mar 26, 2019 13:38 |
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Mom (F49) posted screenshots of dads (M55) dating site profile to family chat u/sarahhh11 I just woke up and opened WhatsApp. New message in family chat. ’Screenshots of dads dating profile site. Last log in 3 hours ago. Profile made 2017.’ drat. I took that profile photo of him. Does he want a new family or wtf is he after?? I’m heartbroken, but I feel so bad for my dad. I’ve always been his little princess, but my three other siblings (all over 18) have literally hated dad for the past x years. The main reason for this, has been my mom. She is really manipulative and means towards dad, although they’ve been together for over 27 yrs. Everytime dad has done something that mom doesn’t like, she would really make sure the whole family would be against dad. No wonder my siblings are all messed up in their head mentally... But yeah, during this year abroad (have not seen parents in a year) I really thought things had been going to a better direction... Parents have posted so many loving pictures online etc. and travelled together. I don’t know what to do/say/think about this. I want to be so angry at my dad for tearing the family apart and making me scared of relationships. But at the same time, I want to be so angry at my mom for embarrassing dad again in front of everyone and making the whole drat family hate him even more. How have your parents dealt with one of them cheating? How have you felt about it? Did your parents even tell you? What the hell should I comment on the family chat???? I just hate picking up sides.... :,,,,,,( Pro tip to everyone: don’t make kids, when you’re not mentally ready. The kids will just end up being your psychologists. TLDR: Dads profile of 2 years caught on dating site. Manipulative mom posted screenshots on family chat and wrote a bunch of hateful comments. I don’t know what to think about all this. Which side to choose?
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# ¿ Mar 26, 2019 14:03 |
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Doc Hawkins posted:Go Pregnant or Go Home I hate this. It’s kitschy and awful.
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# ¿ Mar 27, 2019 05:11 |
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I think we should give the mom some slack. Imagine trying to raise intelligent and sexually safe children and succeeding with the first, only to find out your second is an utter moron intent on making one of the worst possible decisions that will affect not only her own life, but the parents and the potential child as well. Seriously, that 15 year old girl wants to gently caress potentially 4 people over, not bothering to mention the father of the kid or the father's parents. Do whatever you gotta do to convince the girl to not turbofuck everything for the foreseeable future.
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# ¿ Mar 27, 2019 19:51 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I think that, given the benefit of hindsight, the parent who forever alienates their child but still convinces them to get the abortion is a better parent than the one who "supports them no matter what" and stands by their side while they dive headfirst into a life of suffering. I don't think I could ever leave my child to suffer forever but I could certainly imagine making them think I would so that they come to their senses. Agreed. Life is already hard enough as it is. No need to willfully make it 100x harder without fully grasping the situation until it's far too late to back out.
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# ¿ Mar 27, 2019 20:21 |
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2024 21:30 |
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Can we maybe not double down on being gigantic pricks here? I use this thread as a coping mechanism while my current job situation circles the toilet. I'd rather not see it locked.
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# ¿ Mar 27, 2019 20:37 |